Not self service but by your partner.I have recently been told that it can be years before a woman has her first. True or false.
2006-09-27 16:31:18 · 11 answers · asked by Hammer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love this question. I was 28, had been married for YEARS to the same man - and had my first clitoral orgasm "accidentally" one night. I wasn't sure what had just happened -- but I REALLY wanted it to happen again!!!
OK - divorce came and went. I'm 35 now - and have a great boyfriend. Had my first G-Spot "Big O" with him (and second, and third, etc.... hee hee hee)
So, for ME, the answer to your question would be true. Very late bloomer.
2006-09-27 16:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Juzt_b_238 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually had my "first" with my second hubby. I was 32 at the time. We have been married now for 18 years and I had to give up sex 10 years ago when he had a stroke and several heart attacks. I do wake up in the middle of the night about once a month in the throes of a full-blown orgasm from a dream I might have had. That gets me through the forced lack of intimacy. :-D
2006-09-27 16:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i began having sex at the same time as i changed into 17. yet i did not get a real orgasm till i changed into 24. i idea I had some type of ailment or something, yet seems that being so youthful, i changed into no longer actually waiting for mature sex. i idea I died and went to heaven at the same time as i ultimately were given it on the age of 24. each little thing turned right into a lot extra ideal for the reason that that day. I mean nighttime.
2016-11-24 23:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by tobias 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....I forgot, maybe two or three years ago, i was 20 or 21. I only slept with my husband, so i'm not a knowledgeable person, and he didn't pleasure me much, and i didn't know what an orgasm was until he actually took the time to make me feel good. And it is true what you ask, some women hardly ever experience it.
2006-09-27 17:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Girlish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant expect to have an orgasm from your partner if you yourself dont know what feels good. you have to explore what touches you like. then you can guide him to do the right things to you. you can also try oral sex. my first orgasm was at age 19 and it was through oral sex. also you can incorporate clitoral stimulation into your intercourse. a lot of woman can not have an orgasm through intercourse alone so dont feel bad. also you have to be able to feel confident during sex. you cant release and have an orgasm if your too caught up wondering if your butt looks saggy or your belly isnt washboard flat. and last, read books about human sexualtiy. it helps.
2006-09-27 17:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lily R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 19 and had no idea what an orgasm was and had been sexually active with one person since I wa 16. I was have sex regularly and you cant miss what you never had. But when I met my now husband and experienced my first orgasm I wanted to have one everytime we had sex.
2006-09-27 16:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hum......about age 30. Things go "fast for him" so it has taken hubby a while to slow down and make things last longer. Yippy for me, FINALLY!
We have been married for 20 years now.
2006-09-27 16:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hammer, I was about age 21-22 has to be the right person ... caring emotional or at least in my beleifs...that is what works for me...
2006-09-27 16:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by fantasia91273 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the age 12 love it too...
2006-09-27 16:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine was about 5 years ago....and that's why I finally married.....and the key was communication....I was finally comfortable enough to tell him....what turned me on ..and off.....so I believe for some it is true
2006-09-27 16:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋