This guy that I was talkin to and messin with is talkin to one of my close friends. I don't know how to approach her in a way without causing comflict. She told me that he calls her but she ignores his calls. Her cousin told my that she calls him all the time when I'm not around. I have been thinkin that I should wait until he say something more since I asked him. Because I don't want her cousin to get in it. But what should I say?
2006-09-27 16:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by O'Shea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Mama on the real she really can't be a freind messing around with a dude that you already deal with That's straight crossing the line .I say stop dealling with the both of them they both out on some game running and you don't need neither one of them real freinds are always out for your best intrest so say to the both of them. F@ck You
2006-09-27 16:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a really good friend and you weren't that into him, don't say anything. Let it go, it may not be worth losing a friend.
But if you were into him and she stole him away, the best thing to do is confront her alone. No one else should be involved with that, it should be you and her so that you can express your feelings on the situation without anyone else getting involved.
Tell her if you feel betrayed or if your feelings are hurt. Be honest. If she is receptive then she is a good friend, if she is confrontational, drop her either literally or figuratively depending on how confrontational she gets!
2006-09-27 16:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by GHV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say what u feel, it seem that you are uncomfortable with your feelings towards him. why does your best friend have the phone number of a guy your speaking too. Why do u want to have anything to do with a man that disrespect you behind your back with your own friends, the best way to handle this man is to be a woman about the situation, tell him that he's not the man for you. straight to the point, and than re-evaluate your relationship with your female friends "birds of a feather flocks together'..
2006-09-27 16:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by DEBORAH M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is no man that is worth ruining a good friendship over...and you say that you are not bf/gf so he is free game but if you want more from him and you want a commitment you need to express that to him..you should be upfront and honest with your friend about what is going on with you and this man..she may not know much he means to you and he could be playing both of you..don't settle for a "talking and messin around" commitment it could get you a STD or worse
2006-09-27 16:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything, just get out of the friendship. You dont need friends like that. She is lying to you, do you really want someone like that to share you deep secrets with.
2006-09-27 16:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, a "true" friend would never do such behind your back. gather your guts, wits, and your most respectful way of talking. talk to her and go directly to the point. if she seems apprehended then BOOM She's try to be mad to cover her guilt.. Just continue and agree on something and stick to that agreement..(too broad??? you'll get to it?
2006-09-27 16:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jane l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice friend, that is if you expressed intrest in him. He does not sound like much of a prize though, so let your friend have him and find new friends who aren't trying to get with guys you like.
2006-09-27 16:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Phister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bye
2006-09-27 16:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her and tell her that you know she has been calling him.......You don't have to share your source.........
2006-09-27 16:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋