Do you ever get the feeling that someone in your family, like and old person, a grandfather or something thinks of you the wrong way? I keep getting wierd glances from my grandfather, and sometimes I think he is looking at my boobs. Eeeeww!!! I get creeped out by that, and the worse part is, I live with my grandpa!!! (not alone, thank god...) Any help/advice/similar experiences/empathy/sympathy?
2006-09-27 16:23:45 · 12 answers · asked by zutara_princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's always hard to imagine, although my father-in-law tried to hit on his niece
2006-09-27 16:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I had an uncle that used to creep me out. Turns out he was a true mental case (literally), but when I was little I didn't know that. My instincts told me something was not right. Don't second guess yourself. If you are uncomfortable, say so to someone. And avoid EVER being alone with him. I learned from my childhood, to NEVER expect my children to hug people unless they WANT to. If they skip it, so be it. I was expected to hug my weirdo uncle, and I HATED to go visit my relatives b/c I knew I would have to hug him. I don't have any recollection of anything inappropriate happening, but I also do not doubt that it could have if I'd ever been left alone with him. Fortunately for me, when we stayed at grandma's, my brothers were in the same room with me.
2006-09-27 23:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by victronia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a brother in-law that raped my daughter when she was little and she has been scared for life. She hates sex to this day. She did have one child though but only one. she loves children or she wouldn't even have her. I feel sorry for her husband but he is very understanding. It is so wrong. Bye the way he got sent to prison for a long time.I would keep my distance as much as possible. God Be with you.
2006-09-28 00:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No granfather is not indicating this. I once had a granfather and he was just proud to see how I developed into a nice lady. Look at it on the positive side unless there is some other indication that measures up to your thinking.
2006-09-27 23:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes even grandfathers can be perverts , mention it to your mom or dad or some one you trust in the family maybe he has done it to others as well
2006-09-27 23:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be incest if he is thinking of you like that. But remember that he is human and if you have a hot bod he probably will look at you like you don't want him to. Also don't show any more skin than you have to.
2006-09-27 23:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grandfather is noticing that you have become a young woman.
2006-09-27 23:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not cool. I'd explore other living arrangements if it's possible.You definitely have my sympathy.
2006-09-27 23:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Chicklet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh! That's creepy! I try to ignore things like that very carefully. Just pretend it doesn't happen...
2006-09-27 23:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i understand what you be sayn i think you should cover up a little more or jus when he looks at you give him this werid look like what da *** r u lookn at lolz
2006-09-27 23:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by JAMILAH D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋