ok so this guy asked me out and we're now officially bf and gf. but we're both really shy and i want him to hold my hand. how do i get him to do that? should i hold his hand first? what if he doesnt want to hold hands............. HELP ME!!!
2006-09-27 16:20:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok this wuz the cutest thing: the first time me and my bf held hands it was in the hall at skool, and he had out his hand on my sholder, i grabbed his hand, and he put it on my waist, then we kissed, then we walked to class with laced hands...
make the first real move, but make it subtle, dont let him kno automatically that u wanna hold hands
2006-09-27 17:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take his hand and hold it as said before smile maybe give him a kiss on the cheek and tell him how you feel, but be ready cause this could open a flood gate you may not be ready for. Take it slow the best things are well worth the wait and much more rewarding .Make sure he knows this . Enjoy and love one another
2006-09-27 17:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by J B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be the one that do things first. If u want to hold his hand well hold it. Do whatever you want and leave shyness besides. Just be u, anyways he is your bf yah should not be shy or emberrased with each other. Show him what he wants to see. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-28 03:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me before. i was very very shy with one of my bfs. i always used to call him and we would never talk to each other. we wouldnt say anything over the phone. we both never asked each other out so his cousin did it for us. its better to open up to each other because if you dont it doesnt work out like you want it to. i am with a new guy now and i still close things up but i am still learning to open up to him. its a lot easier once you both get to know each other. if he doesnt want to open up then dont keep on trying. find yourself someone better then that. theres a lot more people out there that are willing to talk.
2006-09-28 07:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebodys got to break the ice, might as well be you. Grab his hand and tell him what you think and that he is important to you, that should push shyness right out the door. Good luck!!
2006-09-27 16:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by ~Aqua.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you're walking with him, grab his hand. Make sure you smile so he knows you like it. He probably wont let go.
2006-09-27 16:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by shogun_316 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....i got an idea...say you hurt your hand and you want him to look, wonce he grabs your hand, hold his tight
2006-09-27 16:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure he does....jsut hold his hand.
2006-09-28 05:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mediwizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋