Okay, well my friends are going to homecoming as a group of friends. Yet, they never invited me. We are all best friends. Yet i am really mad at them for not inviting me. I wanted to go, but they didnt and i didnt want to go by myself so i was like yeah, you know there is always next year. Then all of a sudden they are like "OMG you should see my dress, its SOOo cute." It makes me so mad. Should i talk to them about it? IF i shoudl what should i say?
2006-09-27 14:39:25 · 24 answers · asked by xoxox 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Jealousy is a symptom of poor self-esteem.
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i am not jealouse. i am just mad that we are friends and they didnt invite me, and they want to show me their dress and act like i am going with them
2006-09-27 14:45:08 · update #1
Are you sure they are your friends? But you should not stay mad at them. You got better things to do.
2006-09-27 15:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mattman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, high school is a funny time. It is a time in life when women master the art of manipulation. That being said, and not knowing the circumstancs, it sounds like just a simple misunderstanding. People in a close group of friends often assume that all of the members of the group will be there during certain events. If you have not been invited officially, I imagine that your friends just assume that you will be there. If there is any doubt in your mind, it can never hurt to ask.
2006-09-27 14:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Romantic Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should talk to them. Bring it up casually that you are not going, since you never got an invite. Don't act like it's a big deal though, it may have been an oversight on their part. They may have thought someone in the group already talked to you about joining them.
2006-09-27 14:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure they know you weren't invited? Maybe each one thinks that one of the others in the group asked you. If they really are friends they would not be talking about their dresses when you are there.
Talk to them about it. Tell them that since they didn't invite you to go, you would appreciate it if they didn't talk about it in front of you. If they get mad, they're not your friends.
2006-09-27 14:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Pandagal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to them in an adult way and just see why they didn't invite you. maybe they assumed you would just go with them because you were the one who wanted to go in the first place. If they re excluding you maybe you should rethink how close you guys are as "best" friends. Or you could totally ditch being good, get a super hot date, and make them all jealous :)
2006-09-27 14:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I understand how you would be upset. But if they are your best friends, surely you guys can talk about it. Just ask them why they didn't invite you. Sometimes people just assume things like they may have just said "well she wouldn't want to go." Which isn't right but people do it. Anyway, just ask them and let them know it hurt that you weren't included.
Good Luck and hey, you should go to your prom. You only get one junior prom and one senior prom. You won't ever get to relive it. I say go and enjoy yourself!
2006-09-27 14:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by curious51867 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to them about it...you are NOT overreacting...I would be lik ehey guys...I thought we were all friends..ask em WHy they didnt invite you...and then ask them what u did to deserve that...then show them how confident you can be by going STAG (or alone)...going alone will show major class on your part (I dont mean like classes like math class im talkin CLASS!)....but try your best to clear things up.....If they are good friends they are worth it.
2006-09-27 14:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Peeko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that dissatisfied you recommendations he reported it in the front of all of your persons and how he insulted you. you should get the guitar because in case you save coaching, hi, all you should do is get better effective :). human beings initiate out suckish then they get better effective so opt for it! Oh and also you've each and every reason to be mad, if he tried to insult you in the front of them now it truly is merely rude, he ought to of merely provide help to down incredible if he theory you've been no longer reliable.
2016-12-06 06:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip the talk, do not lower yourself to sounding like you are begging to be invited. Show them you can have fun and do not need them to be yourself.
2006-09-27 14:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Rugir 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont pay them any mind. they probably wanna see you squirm. dont give them the pleasure. thats why cliques are bad, cuz they can turn on you any moment. u gotta branch out and make more friends. TRUST ME. NEVER LET EM SEE YOU SWEAT.
2006-09-27 14:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋