ok so i've know this guy for about a month, and i just found out that he broke up with his gf today.
and the reason why they broke up is because he likes ME!! i dont know what to do because i dont like him and everyone is saying he's going to ask me out tomorrow.. i really dont want to break his hheart but i dont think i have a choice... what do yyou suggest i do?
2006-09-27 14:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by pink_latina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok look, same question, same answer, different circumstance, be honest with him and easy, but forward so there is no confusion, if you gott the guts apologize to his girlfriend if it makes you feel better.
2006-09-27 15:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by gook_mother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break his heart, but notice he left his current girl to ask you, imagine how she feels right now... NOW, if he were with you, he would do the same thing to You when another hottie comes around, so put distance between yourself and him and tell him your flattered but no thank you because he has no character and he will treat you the same way. dont be mean but defintely be truthfull. you will help him by doing this and teach him and protect many women in the future at the same time.
2006-09-27 14:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him for whatever reasons there is then that's it. Saying no to somebody just to be with another is not a good sign of faithfulness on this guy's part. If he can do it to another woman, what gaurantee can you have that he won't do it to you also.
2006-09-27 14:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by tomatoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Tell him that its not exactly what you are looking for right now. I mean you didn't tell him to break up with his gf. Tell him you want to be his friend but at this point thats all.
2006-09-27 14:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by Debra J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with someone that you don't like. Just tell him no and don't let yourself feel too bad for him. Remember, he told his girlfriend no.
2006-09-27 14:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just tell him that you dont want to but you can be friends and hang out and maybe it will become more
2006-09-27 14:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.tell him that u dont feel how he feels and that u just want to be friends
2.say YES and see how it all works out
3.RRRUUUNNN.....!!!!!!
2006-09-27 14:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by eyeheartbball03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK TALK TO HIM BY YOUR SELF WITH HIM SOMEWHERE AND TELL HIM THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM.. BUT TRY NOT TO DO IT TO BREAK HIS HEART... CUZ YOU KNOW SOME GUYS ARE SENCITIVE WHEN SOMEONE BREAKS UP WITH THEM.....K.
2006-09-27 14:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as gentle and honest as you can.
2006-09-27 14:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by gizbit76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋