uhhh im too afraid to ask my parents but....?

Question

i want to get circumsized and i dont want to tell my parents can i talk to my doctor about it or anything im 15 btw would i be able to get it done with out my parents noing (and sorry to say this but the people who say o just dont get it dont dont help me at all thnx in advance)

ooooo and my parents are the kind of parents to make fun of me and tell the whole family that trust me its from past experiences

Answer 1

i would assume by your age that you could not go aroudn your parents to get it done, either talk to them, or what till your 18 and can go about getting it done without them

Answer 2

And just why would you want to do that?, are they making fun of you at school?. You should watch the episode of Penn and Teller's Bulls++ t about it. They show how barbaric that practice is, no man should have his member mutilated just for looks just like no woman has her clitoris mutilated just because is fashionable. A lot of men lose sensibility and can't enjoy sex like they should, the extra skin was made so men get the maximun amount of pleasure they can get and it pleasures women too, do your research, the skin is there for a reason, did you know that?. I heard from religious people this practice is important because teenagers masturbate less with a mutilated penis, which is of course a lie too.

The surgery is performed to babies because they can't complain, in Penn and Teller's show they show a surgery performed in a baby , the poor soul was SCREAMING horribly because of the pain and they are just babies.... of course they never show this to the parents, they just don't know, so you have all the stupid parents torturing their kids. I hope you take in consideration the practice is a religious thing from a certain religion and it is soooooo freaking old that you can't possibly believe is scientific or has a scientific base. The practice somehow became popular because doctors in the 80's said it was healthier and cleaner for kids, which is a lie you can ask any doctor about it.

In any case if you are going to do it you NEED to tell your parents otherwise you could end up with an unethical doctor (like the one in the Simpsoms) and regret it for the rest of your life. Get the BEST to perform your surgery, there is no other option just the best one would do.

Btw. If you are doing it for a woman forget about it. Don't make lifetime decisions based on your hormons, try to not be so dumb.

Answer 3

There's no legal nor ethical way for you to get a circumcision behind your parents' back, and even if you did and they ever found out, they'd be so mad at you. You're a minor so you'll need their permission for the operation.

If you're not having any medical problems with your foreskin that can be dealt with without circumcision, then I'd reconsider, especially at your age. If it's just for looks or vanity, or because of peer pressure, you will probably regret it afterwards if you get it done. The foreskin has tons of nerves and those add to the sensation in your penis, why would you want to cut away thousands of nerves if it's working fine?

There's nothing wrong with being uncircumcised, and about 80% of the world's male population is uncircumcised and most of them never had any issues with it. In any case, just wait till you're over 18, then if you still really want it done and there's no doubt in your mind, then you can do it and there's nothing your parents can do about it. But still, if you've never had any real problems with it I still don't know why you'd want it done.

Answer 4

Why can't you ask your parents? Is there a religious reason why they didn't have it done when you were a baby? Maybe they just wanted to let you have the choice when you were old enough to decide for yourself. Since it is a surgical procedure, I'm sure that you would have to have their consent - not to mention their insurance and transportation to and from the appointment. Don't be afraid to ask them...all they can say is no...then in 3 years you will be old enough to do whatever you want anyway. Good luck! :)

Answer 5

i don't think you will be able to do this without your parents being involved. if you can not talk to them, can you wait until you're 18? if this is an urgent matter that you feel you must take care of right away then you're just going to have to find a way to talk to them. is your father circumsized? if not then he may sympathize with you. maybe if you present them with some research data on circumcision they will be more likely to allow it. but i fear if this is due to a religious preference there is probably not much you will be able to do to convince them.

http://www.cirp.org/#pages

Answer 6

you are going to have to speak to you parents and explain why you want it done. A doctor will not do it at your age and it would have to be done at a hospital and then your parents would know anyway. If you have a reasonable reason for having it done, then your parents might allow you. Sorry other wise your going to have to wait until your old enough

Answer 7

Please talk to your parents about this. I think they will be supportive of it as it is nothing bad. Anyway, have you consider why you want to be circumsized? Besides, there is no way your parents will not know about it as you need help and care from them during the recovery.

Answer 8

Couldn't hurt to TALK to your doctor about it. You won't be able to have the surgery without your parents consent, but your doc will help you become informed about what's involved, and if you feel really strongly about it, he might be able to help you talk to them.

Answer 9

i would be up front with your parents, tell them how you fell and be honest with them, i know its not easy telling parents somethings, but the trust level you gain. if they don't like it well, wait untill your of age to get it done. good luck

Answer 10

If she asks, purely tell her that a common kiss to you isn't something which you will possibly share alongside with your father and mom, so in case you have been to have your first kiss, you will possibly want to maintain it inner maximum.