i want a baby?

Question

okay my boyfriend and i have been trying i think i am now... ive had signs... but ive had my periods... and still signs... so if im not how can i get pregnant?!

Answer 1

After your next period ends, start trying 14 days after your last period STARTED....So say your period started so to speak..June 23...Have intercourse July 7th...And each day you possibly can after that....Keep trying. eventually you will get pregnant. And don't listen to what people say about getting married first..That is BS..Marriage is only a piece of paper..My god if a man doesn't want to be with you he would divorce you anyways...So I don't know why people always think if your married the guy he is more likely to stay..

Answer 2

Why the hell are people saying get married first? Getting married doesn't mean anything, trust me. I was married, had a kid and we aren't even together anymore. So people it's the year 2006, not 1950. Marriage is over rated and people are jumping in for the wrong reasons. Thats why divorce is so high. And thats more irresponsible then having a child out of wedlock. As long as the kid is being loved and taken care of why do you need to piece of paper saying you got hitched?

I feel your frustration though. Me and my current husband have been trying for 11 months now and nothing so far. We both have a child from previous relationships, and it took a month to get them. So it just takes a longer time for some. I know that's not too comforting. Everyone tells you to be patient and it will happen but trust me after almost a year of trying and knowing for a fact we have hit the ovulation days every month and still nothing, hearing be patient is the last thing you want to hear. But most docs won't even try to test you for a prob unless you been trying for a year. So keep it up and lots of luck!

Answer 3

First off you can still have a period and be pregnant so you should take a test just in case. Bit before hand I think you should be married and know you are in a full commited relationship because if you get pregnant and the father decides not to stay then what? There's a lot of things to think about before having a baby.

Answer 4

It is very possible to have your period when you are pregnant. My best friend had a regular period every month of her entire pregnancy! Your best bet is to see a doctor. A lot of people will say that you're trying too hard...that could be true. Relax...it will happen when it's suppose to! You didn't elaborate on the "signs", they could be anything...even your imagination! I am not joking here. Sometimes women want to be pregnant so bad that they imagine they are having symptoms. Good luck!!

Answer 5

The only way for you to know if you are ovulating(which is when you get pg) is to take your basal body temp each morn, same time and before you get up. You should see a pattern in temps that leads up to and after ovulation. You can get the basal thermometer at Wal-Mart for about 8 dollars. I use a wonderful FREE website called Fertilityfriend.com...it graphs your temps for you, keeps track of your fertility signs, tells you when you ovulate and also tells you if there is an implantation dip in your temps. You can also use Ovulation prediction kits, but they only measure your LH surge and give you a ball park time for ovulation...they do not pin point it. Oh, and it is possible to be ovulating while you do not have your period, just like it is possible to have a period and not ovulate

Answer 6

Keep trying. If you were on birth control for a long time and just recently got off of it, it could take you a few months to get pregnant. Its pretty common. My husband and I tried for a year before we had our first. I was on the pill for two years. If you feel that you have been trying too long, you should have your BF check his swimmers and you should do the same.

Answer 7

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 8

First of all you don't have to have a damn house just to have a baby! As long as there is a roof to raise them. You can have a period and be pregnant also. It happens but not alot.

Answer 9

IF YOU ARE PREGNANT OR NOT, GO GET YOUR MARRIAGE LICENSE AND GET MARRIED BEFORE YOUR CHILD IS BORN. Don't be stupid, don't be selfish, think about the legacy of the child you two are about to conceive. And don't pay any attention to the rich and famous who think it's enriching to exploit their children's legacy for their own financial gain. Think of your morals and the impact your child will have on your parents, your "husband's" parents, and all the grandparents, aunts, uncles, and your child's friends growing up. Get it right for the sake of your child!

Answer 10

i know some people can think they are pregnant so much that they fool their bodys into believing that they are preg. when they truly aren't. So it could be signs of pregnancy b/c you believe youo are so much you fool ur body to believe you are but you truly aren't. But you possibley still could be preg. even with having periods. if your worried talk to your doctor about having a blood test done. good luck