I asked a question earlier about this guy who won't leave me alone! I don't know what to do! I don't want to hurt him or anything, or even get the teachers involved. I have talked to him about it before, and he won't stop and has no reason as to why he does it! What can I do???
2006-09-27 13:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by t g 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My mom knows and says he likes me and to ignore him. My dad thinks it's funny! I have tried to ignore him and it doesn't work! I don't want to HURT him!!!
2006-09-27 13:59:15 · update #1
I don't like conselors! They are kind of weird! He has a girlfriend and I really hope he doesn't like me! He just annoys me. It doesn't freak me out or anything, he's not stalking me, but it gets on my nerves!!
2006-09-27 14:03:41 · update #2
I don't like this guy at all. We aren't even friends! We never really talk to each other!I have tried telling him to leave me alone, and he won't. I am not even close to cute! I look nothing like my avatar! I am really overweight(not that much I guess), but still, I am NOT cute! HELP!!!
2006-09-27 14:10:56 · update #3
He knows I don't like him!!!! I have told him that!!! He doesn't seem like the kind of person that would like me! He is fairly popular and I am so freaking low on the totem pole of popularity that it's not funny!
2006-09-27 14:20:56 · update #4
People bother me with the whole, "You and him sitting in a tree" thing! OMG! That gets on my nerves! Also, we are both Taylors so my friends constantly go, "Taylor and Taylor! How cute is that?" My mom does that!!!!!
2006-09-27 14:42:27 · update #5
I didn't read your earlier question, but I do know this much...just tell a teacher, hopefully he'll get detention or something and he'll get the point to leave you alone, it kinda sounds like harassment.
Last year (9th grade) a guy in my grade whom I've never really talked to much, started calling me his gf for no reason, and saying crap that was so not true, and then one day on a field trip he kept bothering me and my friends when we had stopped for lunch. The first thing my friend and I did when we got back to the school is went and told the teacher of the class that the field trip was for, I never called it harassment, but she (the teacher) is the one who said it was harassment, and some of it was sexual harassment. She talked to him that very day, and he got detention, and he apologized to me, (still don't know if he meant it or not) and he hasn't said a word to me since, and we even sat next to each other in a class (stupid seating charts) and we still ignored each other.
Just tell a teacher so something can be done, he'll just keep bothering you until you do something about it, and just telling him to stop isn't gonna be enough to make him stop. It was nerve-wrecking to tell the teacher, but I'm so glad I did.
2006-09-27 15:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Little Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to his girlfriend and see if she can help get him to leave you alone.... I think you are really gonna have to get the teachers involved with this one. It is against school rules for a student to hit, throw objects or in any way interfere with another students learning.. He has to be set straight by a school official. Otherwise you are gonna have a miserable school year. It honestly sounds as though he really, really likes you..... And just ecause you don't think you are a beautiful person does not mean others don't... He could be to shy to talk about his true feelings and has a girlfriend to cover up the fact that you have made it clear to him that you don't like him in that way.
2006-09-28 04:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Wheezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are amazing at intuition. You need to start using it. How do you feel about him bothering you. Does it freak you out or are you just annoyed? Even if he is acting like he just wants a friend, can you read something else in his mannerisms. Don't mess around with this guy. If you feel anything odd going on, involve an adult. I know it would be hard, but so is finding yourself in a situation that you can't get out of. Please talk to someone about it. Can you talk to your counselor?
Good luck.
2006-09-27 21:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by super_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys have crushes, especially if the girl is really cute. Just be a good person. Be polite, and mabey give him a note that says that you need more space from him. Tell him that you like being friends, but don't have time to talk all the time, and you need to pay attention to school.
good luck.
2006-09-27 21:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a crush on you that sounds like it is getting out of hand, tell him that you are not interested, subtle hints will NOT work, you must tell him that you don't want him to bother you if you haven't already.
If that doesn't work then you will HAVE TO get the teachers involved, sorry for your bad luck
2006-09-27 20:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is not getting that no means no, then you will have to take this to the adults. Talk to your parents. Maybe they can talk to his parents. Be Careful! Obsession can be a dangerous thing!
2006-09-27 21:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go talk to him, he likes you, there is no doubt bout it. Talk to him, say "Hey, I've noticed that you won't leave me alone, what do you want to say to me?" "Do you like me or somethin?" "Well if you do, I'm sorry, but I don't like you, so just please leave me alone." That way e won't get hurt, he'll leave you alone, and you'll be happy!
2006-09-27 21:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you're coming from.He is being mean to you cause he wants to hassle you.I don't think he likes you.I understand I've been in the same situation.you have to just stand up for yourself.
2006-09-27 21:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
princess you need to put your foot down and tell him to leave you alone.. if you don't he will always be a pest..here my email address if you need a friend. efrain78223@yahoo.com
2006-09-27 21:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to seriously set him straight if not he will never leave you alone.even if it means going to teachers you have to
2006-09-27 20:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by fantasia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋