Ok, I am 13, in 8th grade, i go to a christian school, there are 8 kids in my class, well me and this one girl have been Friends forever, and there is this new girls, and they are now best friends, and they never include me in anything, and they oth called me FAT, and i am not fat, They are so mean. So today i was so mean to the girl that we use to be friends forever, and i WAS SO MEAN, she was SO upset that she had to go call her daddy, and she went to the office. Scence they called me fat i have not been eating, now i think i am fat. Help thay are SO MEAN!!!! Oh and i told my principal, and the dean of students.
2006-09-27 13:51:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should discuss this with your parents.
Amber, try to make friends with other people. You really don't have to solely rely on one or two people for a friendship....it is a big world.
I think they only call you fat because they are mean. So eat...don't starve yourself on their behalf.
P.S. You have a beautiful name.
2006-09-27 14:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I may offer a suggestion, I think you should call or text or IM your good friend, the one you where mean too, just explain to her what was happening with the new girls making mean comments and how you are really sorry you let them get to you and you didn't mean to snap at her, she is your friend and I'm sure she will understand. As for what these mean girls are saying, just ignore then, I'm sure you are far from fat, so don't let their mean words hurt you, they are new in the school and are just picking on you so they can try and make friends, just pay them no attention and eventually they will have no choice but to stop. Hope this made sense and hope that it helps you.
2006-09-27 14:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by John H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not fat. They said that specificaly so that they would get a reaction out of you. So if you stop eating, they will see that they got to you and then they'd keep going. DON'T BELIEVE A WORD of what they say to you or about you. They don't really mean it. Because they just want to put you down. DON'T LET THEM. Laugh in their face if you have to. You need to realze how stupid they are! They think, that if they put you down like that that they will be superior. All you have to do is not give in.
2006-09-27 14:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are calling you fat its only because they are jealous of your body.try talking to your friend and ask her what went wrong.why arent we best frinds anymore.but if it keeps going on i say find a new best friend.omg.please dont stop eating that is the worst thing you can do.it only makes you gain more weight. i know that doesnt make sense but its true.when you dont eat your metabolsim slows down so when you do eat it takes longer for the food to digest and it makes you gain more weight.dont pay attention to what they say.people call me fat all the time and i only weigh 115 and im 5'7.i just ignore them and wlak away with confindence.
2006-09-27 14:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fat? calling you fat is out of the question, that shows lack of friendship. dont think that what they say to you is true. and even if it way(which im sure it is not) its worse for your body not to eat, because what little you do is stored, even if its very bad for you...so in other words, its just worse for you body.
i have had friends like that. and believe me, i have gone though so many problems like the one your describing. its hard, i know, it really was for me.
fat would be the last straw for me, because the best thing a girl can do for herself at this age is have a posative self image of herself, to make her better.
and in my case, the teachers didnt help
it hurts...i dont know what else i can say, except, just ignore her, and do your best to stay away. if she says that kind of thing to you, get away.
2006-09-29 15:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat some chocolate you'll feel better. You might want to remind them and yourself that calling people names and being purposefully mean isn't condoned in the Christian faith.
You should apologize.
2006-09-27 14:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok for one thing... EAT. HEALTHY. It won't kill you.
If those girls keep on teasing you, just ignore them (I know this pretty much never works.. its just that thing the guidance counselor always says. xD) or speak to your teacher about not putting you somewhere you can be pestered easily.
2006-09-27 14:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by the new cookie cutter style 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a Christian school? Shouldn't Christian be capitalized? Is Christian school like Catholic school but not for Catholics? Are you like a Mormon or something weird like that?
2006-09-27 13:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe their just jealous and you shouldn't try to stoop to their level or you'll be just like them so just go apoligize to them to make yourself the better person and please eat
2006-09-27 14:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by tysbabyj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋