How Can I Get This Guy To........?
start taking me out places or buying me stuff i mean me and him have been taling for about 3 weeks so far and um we've doin "it" twice already and he told me he wants to keep our relationship on the D.L. but i mean he's so dope to be around just kickin it.but um yeah.so what should i do i mean he has a job and calls me like twice a day when he's there but were just freinds so how can i make it stronger without doing way too much?and i am NOT A GOLDDIGGER at all but i mean gosh i want stuff too!
2006-09-27 13:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by browneyed_kim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and i understand why he doesn't want to put our bizzness out there because down here EVERYTHING IS DRAMA and we don't want no he said she said "kidde" stuff!!THATS WHY!
2006-09-27 13:50:34 · update #1
WE AGREED WE just wanted to be "buddys wit benefits" so ..............just help and he does care he talks and hangs out ith me more than my ex did so..........????????
2006-09-27 14:08:22 · update #2
Tell him one day that u wanna chill at the mall or somethin, then walk around some jewelry store and be like, "oh thats nice" and stuff like that. He will prolly pick up the hint that u want him to buy it for you, hopefully...
2006-09-27 13:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you have to do. You say that you have done it a couple times and that means you are a fornicator. Fornicators will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Don't you want to go to heaven when you cross over into eternity. The only way to heaven is through Jesus Christ. Jesus says "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but by me." You need to repent of this sin and all other sins you've committed against God. Ask God to fill you with the Holy Spirit so that you can live now for God and trust Jesus to save you on Judgment Day. Please do this, otherwise you won't have peace with God and therefore you will have no assurance of salvation. And then, by the way, you'll stop wanting to have stuff and put life in perspective and store up treasuses in Heaven.
2006-09-27 21:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he wants is sex. He'll do what he has to do to get it. Right now, it looks like that's not much. You should probably drop him like a hot potato if he's doing it with you and not even treating you like a proper girlfriend. Next time, don't give it up so easily. In fact, wait for as long as you possibly can. You'll find that instead of struggling to even hang out, you'll actually develop rich relationships. Good luck.
2006-09-27 21:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by shinnphoto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already messed up...when you went to bed with him... i hate to be the one to say this..but he doesnt think much of you...you already said he wanna keep it on the down low now either he's ashamed of you or he has sombody else...i'm not even trying to be mean though...but if you wanna sit around and take this kind of treatment from somebody who don't give a damn about you..well then be my guest...your nothing but a booty call to him you laid it out there like that...so that's how he's gonna come at you...and you could just forget about him buying you anything...you should have had that done befor you went to bed with him...all he's gonna say to that is why should i buy her anything when she already gave it up for free...move on cause he's already labeled you and it's not a good label....
2006-09-27 21:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i just got back wit my ex and i waz the only gurl (in my skool ) that had a man that begged to kick it wi me. His 4 otha friendz asked me out too, 1 a them offered 100 bux, and hes 11, im 12 by the way, but hes just too young and i aint no golddiga anyway, so my point is, dont worry about him there is a lot more guyz in this world, gosh probly too many to choose from, wat a small world aint it?
2006-09-27 20:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Pau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*cough, coughh* golddigga
2006-09-27 20:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.......****w.e****.......
2006-09-27 20:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋