Many of my male friends are with Super Skinny girls. I am not judging these girls I guess I just don't get the teenage boy look that so many men are attracted to. I have tried to ask them but it sounds petty and jealous. Thin to many of us women just seems overweight to many men
2006-09-27 13:49:10 · 16 answers · asked by Cassidy S 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Because the young look, the "cheerleader" look or the schoolgirl look, is a pervasive male fantasy: forensic psychiatrist George Huang
2006-09-27 13:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's funny how some girls are like "yeah, I don't understand, they are too skinny" but end up saying "they need to realize that looks don't matter"...
Basically, most guys like any girl! End of story. Some prefer big boobs, some big butts, some small butts, some prefer petite girls, some prefer tall girls, etc... But, overall, they are just like us: they'll take what they can get! And then, there's the personality! If a girl is fat/skinny and is slutty, they'll probably want to have sex with her. But it doesn't mean they want to date her.
What I mean is... We all have a favorite body type. But it doesn't mean we don't like other ones!
And I don't think it's very nice to always pick on the slim ones. I lived in America for 9 months, and they called me skinny! But in France, I'm called "slim"! Why should slim girls not have boyfriends? So that bigger girls can feel good about eating unhealthy? And it's not nice to pick on the girls who are a bit fat either. As long as you feel good in your body, most guys won't care.
Experience: I went out with an English guy whose former girlfriends all had big boobs and a big ***. Basically, I didn't look like them AT ALL! Well, I was a bit paranoid. But when I think about it now, I think he really thought I was hot, even though I don't have a BIG *** or BIG boobs (ok, I do have a round firm *** and pert ****)! See what I mean? I just thought he only liked girls with curves, when in fact he doesn't really have a preference! So stop hating and feel good about yourself! You know what's worst than being "skinny" or a bit fat? It's when you have no muscle. Trust me, you may not realize it now, but I'm 26, and being toned really makes you look different. You just look more healthy, even when you have a belly. Everything holds together!
2006-09-27 14:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Offkey 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They see these top fashion models, and are conned into believing that women are supposed to look like that. A lot of young girls fall for the same line of trash (that's where anorexia comes from). I agree with you,too skinny is too skinny. I prefer women with some substance to them. I'm always affraid I'll break the tiny little skinny ones!
2006-09-27 13:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know the answer; I'm 'queen sized' and have always managed to have a pretty nice guy (my husband is small and thin, and cute, also 11 yrs younger than me). Have you noticed, however, that those guys who think you're too fat have something really gross wrong with them? It's weird. Guys have no idea how they look a lot of time. A guy with a stomach hanging down almost to his knees (dickiedoo!) can tell a woman who's 10 pounds overweight that she's too fat, and not see how silly he looks saying it!
2006-09-27 14:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
real, because of the fact ALL skinny females are flat as a board. /sarcasm truthfully, with each and every little thing equivalent different than weight, i might take the thin lady any day. A obese lady might have an benefit nevertheless if the different had an atrocious character.
2016-10-18 02:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by shine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is that skinnny girls are very child-like. Think about it, no breast, no butt. The industry of advertisment uses much younger models now than before. That in turn leads to the men getting sexually attracted to uderage girls that they cannot have. So the petit girls without the curves of a regular adult are now more attracrive. I suggest you have a look at the Aphrodite (Venus) of Milos, to get the Idea of what was sexy before and any fashion catalogue with underage models who simply haven't developed the curves yet to compare and see if I'm right or not.
My girlfriend is also child-like in appearance. I'm not ashamed of it as I am convinced that the times we live in are to blame.
2006-09-27 14:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by athraustos 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't know how old you are but let me tell ya your answer is way off I have a what I feel is a Big Butt as a kid I would cry about it I wanted it GONE!!! But as I grew up I relized that it was to my advantage especially when I put on a pair of Wranglers or Rockies. Boobs men LOVE BOOBS!!!! You have a butt & boobs you got it made!!! Now a days a real man will admit they would have a woman with boobs & butt before THIN!!!!
2006-09-27 13:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by MoKelly 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
okay... looks do matter!! how can you honestly like someone if you're not the least bit attracted to them physically?? you cant!
but its not fair to say that guys only like skinny girls... i personally feel that many larger girls have good looking guys... how do they get them?? i guess they rely on personality.. some girls who are really skinny are ditzy.. its cuz we need food so don't be hatin'!!!!
2006-09-27 14:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by kat 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
because they're really gay, but still in the dark about it. Not to be rude, but how else can you justify men sleeping with skinny boyish "ladies"???
the young cheerleader, school girl thing is just too cliche. Someone has to come up with something new. It's been done since before I was born.
2006-09-27 13:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
girl no one knows..i don't understand what they get out of a girl with nothing but bones ... to me they would rather a girl with a cushion ya know..lol.. for myself i rather a guy with a little meat than a guy with skin and bones touching me..lol..i guess to the best answer i can give is they think being with a girl like that makes them feel good..honestly they just need to grow up and realize that looks don't matter..
2006-09-27 13:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by Tara D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋