I want to see how many people choose looks over personality or vice versa. I mean yes you have to attracted to that person, but what if he/she is dirty inside, will you still prefer him/her? Same as a not so good looking person. If he/she is charismatic and a good person will you prefer him/her even though he/she is not good looking?
2006-09-27 13:47:27 · 15 answers · asked by Loving Life, Always, and Forever 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I prefer on personality.
2006-09-27 13:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by moin_anjum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not looks, but it's more energy than personality. I am attracted to those who are confident and aggressively joyful.
I'm not sure what you mean by 'dirty inside' (and you could mean all kinds of things), or 'good person', or even 'charismatic'. In my exprerience those who are called 'charismatic' just know how to express themselves really well and are not above telling the truth creatively to get what they want (the latter I find repellant). 'Good' is so vague...Kind? Disciplined? Introverted? Extroverted? Selfish? Prosletive? Free? Ruling? Submitting? Direct? Mysterious/ Mendacious? What combination of these is 'good', and is that always 'good'?
2006-09-27 13:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by raxivar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality!! A guy can look like friggen Brad Pit, but if he's a jerk, it's a no go!!! I also tend to overlook "physical flaws" (GOd knows that I am not physically perfect) that normally I wouldn't be attracted to if the guy has a good personality. Now I do have standards, I have to be able to look at the guy AND be sexually attracted to him. I base my choices of men mostly on personality though.
2006-09-27 13:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They way i see it is like this if your attracted to someone because of they're looks and find out they are ugly inside, this is something you usually can find out within a few hours or a couple dates, unless they are hiding it. If your able to realize they are unattractive inside early enough you can stop dating him/her. However if your fooled feelings get in voled and finally you find out this person is not who you thought it's a lot harder to stop seeing him/her because of the physical attraction. Where as if the person is not an immediately attraction to you but for some reason or another you click with personality's and wind up enjoying spending time with this person and then fall in love with this person, the attraction to this person as a wonderful enjoyment the physical appearance will no loner matter or you may even find yourself found of his/her looks and be blessed because you have someone you enjoy..However if this person changes on you and you no longer like the person he/she is inside it's easier to drop that person because he/she is ugly inside and out...Get it? I hope I answered your question correctly. good luck.
2006-09-27 14:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by your name here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose relationships based on personality. Looks only go so far and is usually based on lust. What's in a person's soul lasts a lifetime.
2006-09-27 13:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by keith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a teen and think you should base relationships more on a personality than looks.
2006-09-27 13:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by heres to all the pretty words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote for personality. I look for sincerity and genuine affection in what a person says and how they act. Personality makes a person beautiful or ugly and its as simple as that.
2006-09-27 14:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by pj s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality, hands down.
2006-09-27 13:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me personality i base on both because if they have great personality but an ugly face what will i do. but some people are diffrent
2006-09-27 13:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Amirah N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely personality! That's all that matters to me, if you have a compassionate heart and can make me laugh I'm yours.
2006-09-27 13:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋