My husband works very hard and he is always sore and he is starting to feel the effects of getting burned out. What are some ways I can wind him down after a long day at work? (other than sex, after a hard day of working out in the sun and dirt/mud the last thing you think about is sex)
2006-09-27 13:40:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my husband doesn't get home till after ten each night and seeing it's only 6 I can't do anything for him yet.
2006-09-27 13:57:17 · update #1
You need to have him a good meal cooked before he gets home. If you have babies or you work buy a crock pot if you don't have one. So you can have most your meal ready the next day by dinner.
If he gets home at the same time daily have him a bath and a cold drink waiting. Put him in the tub...lol and give him a drink & clothes. While he is in the bath you can get the table ready. That will give him time to relax. Just like we are treat as a child. A warm bath and full tummy will relax a child it does to adults too.
Then eat and relax. You could rub his back for him. Just making his life easy at home and everything done will cut down on the stress. Make sure he eats good and gets good sleep. It will be relaxing for him to come home to a bath & meal. I know it feel that way too me.
That's what I do but I don't work and am a SAHM
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When my hubby works 2nd most the time I'm still up but if I do go to bed before he gets home. I help his plate and get his things out. So all he has to do is warm a plate and take a bath.
2006-09-27 13:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the last thing he thinks about is sex after a hard day, you let him lie back and give him a loving BJ. Concentrate on him and ask for nothing more after that.
2006-09-27 13:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by beefstrokinoff39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cold beer, a warm bath and a lovely romantic dinner without the sex. But what guy wants all that and no sex. Is he that tired. If so, he is working hard or having an affair baby.
2006-09-27 13:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by CLARABELLE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing that calms my husband down is food and the remote control to the TV and DVD player.
2006-09-27 13:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Marenight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bj doesn't involve doing much on his part, and it will take his mind off his troubles, at least for a while.
Don't mean to offend or sound like a perv, just giving an honest answer.
2006-09-27 13:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soft kisses, then caresses, then gentle massage, then firm massage, then put your shoulders into it, then put all your weight into it.
I think I speak for most men when I say that I would KILL (fellow human beings) in exchange for a good female massage!
2006-09-27 13:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's that bad and he's getting burned out maybe time to change jobs if possible.
2006-09-27 13:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving him a massage my husband loves his whole body rubbed from top to bottom especially his scalp and neck
2006-09-27 13:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A foot rub or back massage.
2006-09-27 13:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by stylinjenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋