My best friend and her husband are friends of my man and mine ,we've been friends for 3 years,it bothers me that she does it so much but she act so dum, she can't take a hint so I just out and ask her why ,but know answer that made sense , even her husband thinks there is nothing wrong with it,he said they are just friends and she gets bored OH WELL WHAT ABOUT MY FEELINGS THIS IS NOT ABOUT HER MAN IT'S MINE,IT'S NOT MY MAN TO KEEP HER FROM BEING BORED
2006-09-27 13:16:39 · 28 answers · asked by babygirlbunt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she's not calling him he's calling her, but if anything is said he say I am jealous and that is not allowed and I have to leave are quit having friends
2006-09-27 13:19:37 · update #1
I have said something to her and her husband and my man but know one is listening it is like who cares how you feel , but when I ask her she cried and told her husband and he called me saying how much she loves and would never hurt me but at 1:29 pm she is calling him again, and she would love for me to call her man but I wont,
2006-09-27 13:26:59 · update #2
Ask her about it. tell her it bothers you. and talk to your boyfriend tell him the same thing.
2006-09-27 13:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, friends don't call bet friends men everyday like that!! Hint, she ain't your friend and her husband is blind as a bat!! Get's bored my foot, get a puppy, a baby, something.And did you check your man? If anybody, check him, he's not exempt from your wrath. What does he do all day or night that he has so much time to talk with her anyway? You might want 2 get that handled.Your man is full of POOP!! Get a real man, that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2006-09-27 13:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Ladeshug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is you man welcoming these phone calls from your friend? If he is, he's not too interested in your feelings either. If she is bored she needs to get a dog or something and leave your man alone. If he is not satisfied with you he needs to tell you. No man of mine would even think about accepting repetitive phone calls from a friend of mine, what kind of friend is she who totally disregards your feelings anyway. Maybe you better reevaluate the whole frienship thing anyway.
2006-09-27 13:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not YOUR man.
He is his own man.
You and he are together and, therefore you will have things
come up that you will have to work through as a couple.
This may be one of those things. Talk with him and discuss
your feelings and fears and work them out like adults.
Do not let the big ugly beast known as jealousy make this
thing something other than what it is. You either TRUST
your man or you do not. If you don't trust him, then you are
with the wrong man to begin with.
2006-09-27 13:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there are people in the UK with phone tap technology all you need is her phone number and the PI can receive all her sms and listen in to her phone calls the freedom of information act makes this legal email me if you need more info
2006-09-27 13:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, it sounds like her husband can't be a*sed entertaining his wife so she's looking for a bit of comfort and attention from someone else. Instead, try asking your partner not to take her calls and gradually cut her off. Let him nkow how it's effecting you.
2006-09-27 13:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Munchy Mooneo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo i was havin almost the same problem. look jus trust yoour man because if theres no trust then thiers no relationship. if your so called friend doesnt get the hint then maybe shes jus doin it outta spite to make u mad.stay strong.
2006-09-27 13:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by FoxE_single _lady37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she calling so much? What do they talk about? If it's about work or a computer problem, well, then I can understand. But is your boyfriend interested in her? I would ask her, or stay around, close when they are together, and see what they talk about.
2006-09-27 13:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it again and if that does not work tell your boyfriend that her calling him bothers you and if that does not work discuss it with her husband. If that does not work, than I'd say so long to the relationship, its not worth their denial.
2006-09-27 13:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by poet_by_nature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start calling your friend's husband every day.
2006-09-27 13:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aparently your "best friend" really isn't your best friend. Your boyfriend is'nt to great either. My advice is to talk to your friend and break up with your boyfriend because thier definetely up to something. Sorry about your situation=(.
2006-09-27 13:22:43 · answer #11 · answered by princessmorgan1105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋