my friends keep calling me ugly all of a sudden and its made me really sad and i dont know what to do
2006-09-27 13:14:04 · 13 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get drunk and hire a hooker
a fine looking one
youll be on top of the world
2006-09-27 13:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Self-esteem is a person's subjective appraisal of himself or herself as positive or negative. If you think that your friends are right you have low esteem, if you think that they are wrong you have at least normal level of esteem.
Level and quality of self-esteem, though correlated, are not synonymous. Self-esteem can be high but fragile (e.g., narcissism) and low but secure (e.g., humility).
Generally, self-esteem is recognized to be achieved by the conducting the way you live a multitude of ways. Listening to music, playing a game, going to work, engaging in politics, conversing with others, and sex are all examples of ways in which self-esteem can be generated. And of course you are not ugly your friends do not know what they are talking.
2006-09-27 13:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all friends dont call each other names unless they are joking and they are not hurtful names like that. get some new friends to hang out with and then show the old ones a thing or 2 by increasing your self esteem. to do that you need to look in the mirror decide what you want to do , what you dont like and what you want to change, and then change it. then i want you to start setting little goals for your self thing you couldnt do before start out little try till you master it, and then set a little bigger ones and so on and so forth the more you do for yourself and conquer your goals the more self confidence you will have to go to bnigger and better things and good ridance to those old so called friends.
2006-09-27 13:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. You be the duckling that will bloom into a beautiful swan one day. Concentrate on what you good at. Never let other people decide whether you be ugly or not. Everybody is beautiful on the inside and have ugliness on the outside at at pint in life. Your beauty will catch up with you. Take care, hon.
2006-09-27 13:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Totoru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey look.. People do it to me all the time and im not jus saying that either. the way i c it is apparently i must be pretty popular for them to talk about me. if you believe you are ugly then u will let those so called friends get to you but if you are humble with yourself and know who you are then you will find real friends like me who will RESPECT you for who u are and not what you look like. i dont think your ugly and ive neva seen you. LOL jus a lil humor to make u smile
2006-09-27 13:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by FoxE_single _lady37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! that hurts. i was self consious about my nose because one person said it was big. Girls are just plain mean. Do you have a guidance councelor you could talk to? Make sure your are neat and clean and it will blow over. I'm sorry their cruel words affected you so deeply. remember you can't change their behavior but you can change your own. Look in the mirror and tell you self that you are beautiful on the outside because you are beautiful on the inside.Beauty is only skin deep.
2006-09-27 13:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your FRIENDS would never call you ugly. The first thing you need to do is get new friends!
As far as you being ugly, do not listen to what other people say about you. People try to be cruel on purpose.
2006-09-27 13:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun if there calling you that there not your friends.
get new friends and go to conceling it will help.people can be so crule sometimes and dont care what they say may hurt someone (there the ugly ones)
2006-09-27 13:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Heart-of-Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it helps if you just ignore it. if you leave it all alone. it will go away over a long peroid of time.
And if your friends call you ugly hun. they were never really your friends.
2006-09-27 13:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
study hard and get rich. you'll be the last one laughing>:D. and those people arent your friends if they're calling you ugly. nevermind what they say, just do what you need to do to get through life and you'll be fine.
2006-09-27 13:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to thwem they r just saying that about you to make themselves feel better. chances r they have low self-esteem problems!
2006-09-27 13:22:40 · answer #11 · answered by Bellatrix/Jimmypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋