My and my bff Rachel has been bff for 3 years now!SHe get on my nerves like every time i talk to her!And i don't trust her!And she always want everything to be her way!I say i like small dogs but she like big dogs!Then she would hurt me cuz she only want it to e her way!!She even fuken called my an axxhole once!If i ditch her what should i say to that beeych!?She alway argue with me too!HAHA she got detention today!!!And she's a snooby brat!I don't even have the guts to tell her that!!!!help!
2006-09-27 12:46:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is your ‘bff’ then you sure as heck don’t need any enemies !!!
Look, you don’t sound like you are friends at all, because ‘friends’ don’t talk about each other the way you have spoken about her.
She isn’t your friend if she is the way you say she is toward you…
And you are not her friend if you have told us these things and not told her !
Personally, I think you have both got a lot of growing up to do, and I wish you had done it before you got onto Yahoo7 Answers !!!
2006-09-27 12:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is no way in the world that you 2 are best friends you may have known each other for a long time but best friends dont talk that way about each other if you do still insist you 2 are best friends then you need to talk to her like a best friend would if she doesnt understand where your coming from or dont care then get a real best friend i know i can tell my best friend any thing and we will still be best friends and sometime we have to agree to disagree. and we are still best friends andthats the way it works. if she is so selfish that she cares nothing about what you want and how you feel she is not a real person that truly loves and cares about you.
2006-09-27 13:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, none of us can really give you the "guts" to say those things to her. But if you were to, I would do it a little bit nicer, because you don't want to scar her for life or anything. She seems like she is a person who is hard to reckon with, and who thinks things should always be her way. She sounds a tad selfish at what she says/or does. And if she gets on your nerves, than you should definitely say something. I don't necessarily support you ditching her all together, but you could discuss with her your problems/ or annoyances.
2006-09-27 12:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by KALAYY {♥} 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rachel sounds like the bestfriend that is bossy and controlling, you should tell her how she acts, if she doesn't know. If that's how she is then maybe you shouldn't be her best friend or her enemy but just a person......you have plenty of friends,it doesn't matter. Some girls can act like that, but next time choose your friends wisely this time.
2006-09-27 13:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by ladi_c224 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. She sounds pretty bad, but maybe it's just been happening for a few months? Try to think of why you liked her so much to be her BFF, and then see if she really is your BFF after all.
2006-09-27 13:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by OMG. It's Laura. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's been a really bad friend lately, and that even though you aren't Ms. Flawless she's still Ms. ***** of the Universe. Then say she should stop trying to be your friend and to go find some other girl to tortue. And to stay out of your life forever and never talk to you again. And also include that you hate her.
2006-09-27 12:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you certainly have the nerve to tell us. Just do the same and walk away. Or better yet, walk away. If she wants everything her way and you aren't there to impose on then she will be gone before you know it. Problems solved.
2006-09-27 12:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by r_k_winters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her...but be respectable. just be nice and say hello, but don't get too close. don't hate her, don't call her a *****, but just don't talk to her as much, and concentrate on making YOURSELF a nice, sweet, Awesome girl, and make new friends who are really great too, not just fake!
i like how u said "snooby" :)
2006-09-27 13:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell her to her face she is a snooby brat and you dont want to be her bff anymore if it has to be her way.And tell her like it is.
2006-09-27 12:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by jaja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it doesnt really sound like you are much of best friends. Slowly start to hang out with others. Start to pull away and hang out with your new friends more.
hope that helps.
2006-09-27 12:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jessi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋