2006-09-27 12:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by cute&wild 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find out the truth, if you WERE used, you can go several routes. If it were me, I'd tell them what I thought about the situation, and I'd get my point across without making too much of an *** out of myself, because then that way I'm the bigger person and acted maturely - UNLIKE they did. Nobody deserves to be used. Give them a chance to say what they got to say, hopefully there's an apology in there somewhere. Then I'd cut ties with them - because if they're using me in any way, what kinda person are they, and do I really want to be associated with them? Probably not. Learn from it, and try not to let the same thing happen again.
2006-09-27 13:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel like the other answers you got were just those people using you to up their points? But really, you need to be more specific to get a good answer. It makes a difference if it's your family or a boy. But, do know that you don't have to be subject to it regardless of who it is. You let it happen. So, DO something about it! Say something to them (which sometimes feel VERY stupid, but sometimes it's the way to go). If they don't care that it bothers you, then I'd say drop that person. ESPECIALLY if it's a guy who doesn't care if he makes you feel used. Does that get you somewhere?
2006-09-27 19:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by wiggles2288 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times, once the person using you realizes that you know that, they are not gonna speak to you anymore, so even if it hurts you, it makes it a little easier to step away from the situation. Once you know you are being used, run as far and fast as you can from the situation, because there is nothing to follow but hurt, anguish, and pain. Get away from it while you can.
2006-09-27 19:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by mel_a_can 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from it & dont make that mistake again.Where you used?Did you look at things from the others point of view?If you still think that you were,,just stay away from people like that.Losers like to take advantage of kind hearts.
2006-09-27 19:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my so called best freind would always ask me for rides, here and there and over there, So one day I asked her for gas money and her asking me for rides everywhere did not stop completly but decreased dramatically,,..... then about 2 months later they stopped.
2006-09-27 19:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a stop to it. tell the person who used you how you fill. if the problem get out of hand cut that person off.
2006-09-27 19:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the person know, show my hurt, and move on. Terrible feeling.
2006-09-27 19:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my sisters have been known to use me for years. I finally started saying no. They don't ask anymore.
2006-09-27 19:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the situation so that you aren't being used.
2006-09-27 19:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them know that you are not a toy
2006-09-27 19:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋