He took us to the movies and i called him a jackass im 14 what schould i do he has a daughter that is 5 i play with her alot so im allways at his house helpppppppppppppppppp
2006-09-27 12:36:16 · 10 answers · asked by pinkyswinkys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
are you on crack
2006-09-27 12:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by meeshii 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Considering that you are just 14 you really ought not to have been cursing to begin with, infact there is no reason why anybody should. If you have not been told before, cussing at someone or using profanity at all is a demonstration of ignorance. Before you feel insulted, consider that there are other ways to speak without cursing. Anyone who cannot find an unkind word without being profane does show ignorance. I am not mind you, saying that it is okay to be unkind either. Also, it would seem there has to be alot more to the story. What are we talking about, refusing to turn the ringer off during the movie or just jabbering away on the phone and ruining the movie for everyone else? Or did it get thrown out by accident? If it was by accident, and for certain that your principal's son did it and knows he did, but he did not replace it--then he probably has little appreciation for other people and their things, and he should have. If that is the case, just ask him about it. Maybe he will, maybe not, but there is nothing to lose in asking nicely. If on the otherhand you were the one who was thoughtless, it did not give him the right to throw your phone out. Are you sure he did-or did he put it somewhere and forget about it so he and other people which include his daughter could see the movie? That is a possibility. If he threw it out because you were ruining the show then both of you are at fault. He then had no business doing that and you had no business doing what you did. In that case, because both of you caused the reaction, he is not entirely to blame although there were much better ways to achieve the same peaceful movie watching. I have to wonder if you thanked him for all he spent to take you to the movie? I also wonder if you had been the guest of him and his daughter before. Well, if not, then at least now you know he does not want a phone to accompany. It may be it is around and you will get it back, it could be that he had a bad day, lost his temper and will replace it if you discuss it with him nicely and apologize for calling him an asshole, jackass, whatever. If not, then all you can do is learn a lesson from the experience and not bring a phone again. I am curious though if you are 14 going on 15 why you are at his house all the time playing with a 5 year old. That is quite an age gap, so if you haven't already guessed, most anything the 5 year might do wrong you will get blamed for allowing or starting, because you are way older. This may be a good time to cut down on your visits and begin spending time with your peers more often. Also, remember that the man you are angry at still is the son of your principal so any complaints he has about you, his father is very likely to hear and you do not need your principal to be against you if you should ever need him or his permission for anything at school. Last of all, it is the bigger person who can forgive a wrong done to them. If it was a wrong, do try to be forgiving. I know phones are important to teenagers but I also know that July was a long time ago now and it is better not to harbor bad feelings inside. They do not hurt the person you are angry with, they only end up hurting you. I hope you will think about everything I said and that it will be of help to you now and in the future.
2006-09-27 13:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by beverly p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were you doing that caused him to throw your phone away? 5 is a little young for a 14 y/o girl to be hanging out with. FInd someone your own age and try to stay away from his house. Also, if he is 28 and throwing your stuff away he is obviously not very mature and probably has some anger issues. Leave them along for awhile.
2006-09-27 12:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learning to spell is important.
Second of all, why are you 13 and playing with a 5 year old?
Third of all, why are you calling a person names that was nice enough to take you to the movies?
2006-09-27 12:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are u hanging out with a 28 year old?you need to b with your own age. Where is your mom/dad during all this?
2006-09-27 12:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. Learn to watch your mouth and be respectful. Your parents fight your battles with adults at this age.
Also tell your principal your teacher is not helping you much with spelling.
2006-09-27 12:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he offer to replace it? That could be considered theft of personal property. But seriously, I think you should have used the spell checker before you posted your question.
2006-09-27 12:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i didn't get a word u said..... i think u need a help not just with ur problem but with ur education
2006-09-27 12:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should apulagise and tell him but you had no reason to ever
throw my phone so you need to apulagise also.
2006-09-27 12:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by jaja 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd try to move past it---
2006-09-27 12:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋