i hate it . gees every expects to be perfect. i'm not supposed to cry when i'm upset. I'm supposed to not take jokes seriously yet some of their jokes are mean, i can't speak or voice out when i'm upset. i might as well be a dummy.
2006-09-27 12:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nobody, and I mean nobody, is perfect. Crying is a natural process if you are upset, cruel jokes are not funny and you should not have to be subjected to that nonsense. Whoever thinks you should be perfect is the dummy. Sounds like you are trying to please the wrong person.
2006-09-27 12:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, storm, sounds like you are really upset. I am so sorry. This is so unfair to you. And some people can be very cruel. I know you are a good person. I can tell you are intelligent and sensitive. I can't make this stuff go away, but I can tell you that you don't have to live feeling so bad. First, get some support. Talk to good people you can trust. Then make a plan to change your life as much as you can. Make some new friends. Go to some different places. Just shake up your world for the better! You can do it because you are in charge of your own heart. Don't give up and don't despair. All of this can change. You will find a much happier place to be. Just take charge of your own happiness and get busy with some help in making your life a garden and not a desert.
2006-09-27 19:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're smart and you're not a dummy. Everybody should know that nobody id that perfect. You don't have to be. Trying your best is good enough.
2006-09-27 19:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, its "society's expectation." A rather ridiculous one if you ask me. But i know what you mean, i'm going through the same phase. I just refuse to comform to it, i'll say what i want and other's can think what they want.
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2006-09-27 19:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough day, huh.
Maybe you should kick someone's butt tomorrow just out of the blue. Nah, that wouldn't be right. Just think about it and laugh at them instead. When they ask why, say "I know where you sleep".
2006-09-27 19:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a question in there? your not perfect, welcome to the real world, nobody is. anyone who thinks they are needs a good therapist. don't be so hard on yourself, your perfect the way you are. it's normal to cry and get angery.
2006-09-27 19:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the game we play. Sucks, huh?
But now that you know it's a game, you can view it as if from a height... and you're above it.
2006-09-27 19:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by AntiDisEstablishmentTarianism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is perfect, especially not them
2006-09-27 19:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by tennisman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋