what If your boifriend said to u one day that u he wants to have sex now and questions later don't u think there's something wrong with that?
2006-09-27 12:00:23 · 28 answers · asked by Kam 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If u think that he will dump me If I have sex with him then tell me why ?
2006-09-27 12:23:09 · update #1
I would be finding a new boyfriend.
2006-09-27 12:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No teens should not have sex, they are to young and it could really get them into a lot of trouble. Sounds like your boyfriend is disrespecting you, you should not put up with that. When you are able to support yourself have a man thats going to be there for you no matter what(plus you have married him), and have had all the young party fun that you want, its ok to have sex. You better be ready for whatever could come from having sex like a baby that will change your life forever.I was 20 when I had my son, I love him to death but take my advice they are hard work and I would have waited if I knew just how hard it was going to be! You can have alot of fun with your bf without having sex and dont let him tell you anything different! good luck ;-)
2006-09-27 19:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by Manda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you don't think that it is a 'wrong' thing to do, there are other things to consider. How about STD's? You can try to prevent them but there are some possibilities that are not worth risking. Also there is the possibility of pregnancy even when using a condom. Who wants to risk that when not married? And, then it is just plain a gift to offer your future spouse when you've never had sex with anyone but that person you decide to spend forever with. A lot to think about before giving your virginity away, huh?
2006-09-27 19:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by eileen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think teens should have sex they are not ready for all the things that can happen I had sex very young around 12 that was too young I felt like i was ready but now that I am an adult I was not ready and that hurt my image and people put me down you really need to wait and see if he really loves you. about 17 I think is fine with protection and if your boyfriend has been waiting for over a year if he waits that long is tells you he loves you and does not just want sex if he is around for awhile he deserves it and that will say he will not leave you if he just wants to have sex and cant wait then you need to let if go cuz after he gets sex he will leave to another one and you will be stuck without him and without being a vigin and you have to think about pregnancies i had 2 children in my teens but thank god I am still with him he waited for me close to a year and stuck around with me that is how I knew he loved me.
2006-09-27 20:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by rc2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then you must think its not a good idea or arent sure if it is and if you arent sure then it probably isnt a good idea, and you should talk about it, before you have sex, and only do if you are in love. My personal opinion, on teen sex is as long as you are over 16 its up too you, under 16 wrong!
2006-09-27 20:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the circumstances. Are you ready to take the risks? If you get pregnant can you take care of a baby?? What if you get an STD. Can you handle that? Do you know how to prevent pregnancy and STD's correctly. Not using methods like pull out and having sex standing up ( which dont work.) If you have any doubt about these your not ready.
2006-09-27 19:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful! Why is wanting it now? If you don't want to, then don't do it. Don't do it because he's the one who wants to. Don't let him pressure you into it. I think it's wrong. Hey may just want to have sex with you and once you give in, he'll dump you for someone else. Sometimes if you give in, you get dumped, but if you don't, you get dumped. If that's the case, he's not worth it to begin with. He needs to respect you.
2006-09-27 19:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by JoesWifee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that sex should be saved for marriage, but if it occurs before marriage, then I think they should be between two responsible adults.Teens? well that could come into question. I got married at 19, but if they are just starting to date then NO. They have to be sure they are ready for the consequences.
2006-09-27 19:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by wallsuds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just don't do it. If he cares about you than you should stay together for a long time. If he doesn't, than he doesn't really love you.
But in the end, it's all you. You have to choose, I only hope that you make the right choice. best of luck to you, and I hope that it all works out. e-mail me if you need to talk to a guy that thinks with something besides his pants.
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2006-09-27 19:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by big kountry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say that that is the only reason he got with you in the first place and it's time to end it. Sorry girl but nothing good can come out of teenage sex.
2006-09-29 18:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by chik4jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstain from sex and focus on your future. Tell your bf to F-OFF cause that a BS line that no girl should take!
2006-09-27 21:26:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋