growing up & other issues?
okay my dream is to be an actreess and run for homecoming queen. each day i try or strive to meet someone new. i know if i tell my friends what i want to do in life and that i want to run for homecoming queen. she'll laugh. she bugs me so much. i try each to step out of my comfort zone. for the first time in my life i am bold enough to approach people and i have this positive energy flowing. yet people are so skeptical about me. many of my friends think i have not changed a bit and i never will. they alway s speak to me as if i'm still a child and they always assume i'm failing all my classes and that i will do anything to get with a guy. they are not always this way but when they are it pisses me off. any advise people
2006-09-27 11:54:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Follow your own dreams. If others do not support you then seek new friends.
2006-09-27 11:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, its nice to have a goal, if you want to be homecoming queen go for it, as far as what people think, it doesnt matter. Dont feel the need to tell people what your goal is, tell only those that will support and encourage you. Dont forget though, its not just the destination, its also the journey, break your goal into smaller pieces, say you want to be an actress and do something small each day towards your goal.
2006-09-27 18:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by ginny c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are changing and your friends can't accept that, maybe you need to change your friends. I always tell my kids if you find one true friend in your lifetime, you are a lucky person. A friend will accept the things you want in life especially if it is a change for the better. Maybe they have some things they want to change and they are a bit jealous they don't have your courage to do it! Sometimes putting people down makes others feel better about themselves...sad..but true. Keep up your confidence and don't change your goals for the people you are calling "friends".
2006-09-27 19:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way to approach this problem would be to reformulate your thought so that this sprawl thing doesn't happen again. Then remember that you are not that old, only what 18, that's only six years older than 12.
2006-09-27 18:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by Tubleroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look on yourself what you are talking about spirit of positive energy is good to have every morning when you get up from the bed.
You are talking to run just run to get your dream.
2006-09-27 19:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you are comfortable doing - what makes you feel good. As you change and grow, your 'friends' may not be changing and growing with you. Follow your heart and your dreams.
Good Luck!
2006-09-27 18:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not your real friends. Real friends are there for you no matter what you choose to do, real friends help you acheive what you want to acheive. You do what you believe and what you feel. Do not follow a group, be your own person, that is who makes you who you are.
2006-09-27 18:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them and get new and real friends, keep your dreams and try for them.
2006-09-27 18:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme break it to u dis way dawgg! :)
Who do you love and care about most u...
or your so called "FRIENDS"?
I think u got your answer!!
2006-09-27 19:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by C.J. W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS like you need new friends
2006-09-27 18:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋