i've only made one friend since i started highschool (i know sad and you probably think i'm a loser) and even she doesn't like me or her friends(she doesn't have any freshman friends she doesn't lyk any of the freshman she says i think it's cuz sum of them r stuck up and too preppy for her) well mayb even one of her friends lys me but i cuz she talks to me the most at lunch(thats the only time we're together in school..well i have two classes with my 'friend' butnywyaz) i wudn't be suprised if she didn't either. and i swear i've never been mean to her! she was the one talking **** bout me behind my back to her gay friends (it's a little obvious). and we even got along great the first time (and be4 she started hating me im pretty sure don't remember when) and i wasn't ever mean to her friends either. i've tried making other friends but i couldn't think of much to say and people were unfriednly i think i am a loser in this skool i cant tell anybody know how i feel and any advice gtg thnx
2006-09-27 11:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Try again in English.
2006-09-27 11:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by newt_peabody 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I didn't have any friends in high school either. It will get better once you start work or college. If things don't get better, check out options. You may be able to transfer to another school or dropout if you have to and work on a G.E.D. Home schooling is another option. Join some clubs to make friends, drama, art, school newspaper, yearbook or whatever interests you.
I FORGOT TO ADD. Join a sports team if you have any interest or ability at all. It's a great source of friends.
2006-09-27 20:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Superstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School is hard. Kids can be so cruel. You should just be yourself. Be nice to everyone. You can smile at others. If someone looks like they need a friend or is "lost", offer them your assistance. I am sure you will find a good friend. I had friends and I can remember One good friend. Now, 20 years later, I find out that I had some classmates that I had inspired and did not even know about it. I think that If I hadn't been so shy and awkward, I would have had more friends. I was so insecure and I would hardly talk to anyone. Most of the friends I made were older than me. I was so devestated when they graduated.
If Others are talking about you and being mean, (it is hard for me to understand what you are saying), just ignore them. Be who you are. You don't need to associate with those. I would smile at them and keep walking.
I had a bully after me all through middle school. She was hateful. I never talked to her, but she made it a daily occurance to shove me or call me names and when I told on her, she hit me in my ear. I ignored her. She wound up dieing in a car accident shortly after that. It was sad that she had to die such an angry person. You have to realize that people that hateful are not happy in their lives. They are usually jelous of you when they pick on you. They are unhappy and try to pick on those they feel are weaker than they are. Don't give them the satisfaction. Show them how good of a person you are. Smile at them. Offer them a hello. You don't have to let them walk all over you. Those who are like that usually regret it and apologize as they get older. Be glad you have one good friend. You will make more as the year progresses.
My prayers are with you.
2006-09-27 19:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Join clubs and get active. A lot of kids find making friends to be hard. And many are trying to climb up the social ladder. Take stress off yourself by getting involved in theater, music, yearbook, art, swimming and have as much fun as you can. And watch - while you're busy doing stuff you suddenly turn around and there's a friend you were so concerned about making months back. Good luck.
2006-09-27 18:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I Know exactly what you meen I am a freshmen 2 & MY 2 best friends are being mean to one of my new friends from science and she wants to come to homecoming with us and she is clueless and i feel so bad. I Think you should try making friend w/ someone in one of you classes. I have many new feiend that way. I hope skool starts to go better for you :)
2006-09-27 19:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax and don't worry about friends right now. Just do your best, look your best (Don't go to extremes, just make sure you are clean and your hair looks nice). Then just be kind/respectful and the people that are worth it will end up being kind and respectful back to you and pretty soon you will start to think of things to talk about. Don't worry about "making" people like you or ending up "friends" with someone who isn't worth it/will hurt you. Having no friends for the right reason is better than having lots of "friends" for the wrong reasons. Things WILL get better for you - have faith and patience.
2006-09-27 18:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you talk like you spell, you'll get a lot of potential friends just walk on by. Speak/write in English!
Apply yourself in school, don't worry about the people who are out partying & skipping school, you don't want to be in the poor-house with them in a few years anyway.
There are usually clubs for many things, find something you like and join up.
2006-09-27 19:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is my junior year i can tell u from experience its good to have like 3 or 4 friends but don't become friends with the whole if you do u will regret it
2006-09-27 18:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by ebaby102 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
clubs are always a good option. be open, be friendly. you know, smile and, well, if you want to change your image... although that's not the greatest way, it might help a little. it's only the first month, i'm sure it'll get better.
i hope i helped a little.. good luck!
2006-09-27 19:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by s.jeong 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're a freshman in high school and you still can't spell school?
2006-09-27 19:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋