The other day at school this one guy I asked out a few days before called me "fat". So what do I do, I mean my friends say I totally not fat, so What should I do?
2006-09-27 11:47:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
1. He is a jerk, don't waste time worrying about what he said, or what he thinks.
2. Realise that the only thing that matters is that you feel good about your health. What does this mean? It means you eat lots of healthy food, and probably do some form of exercise at least 3 times a week.
2006-09-27 11:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by karkov48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna let some random *insert rude curse word here* get to you because they called you fat? Honey, all guys say that because they cant think of anything that women might find offense. I am not fat, but not skinny, and I got called fat a few time by guys at school that didn't like me. My friend (who is super skinny) got called fat! She just laughed.
Next time someone calls you fat, or a fat bi**h, just smile, or laugh and walk away. Or, just say "Thank you so much, but if i cared what a guy with the mental age of a 10 year old thinks, I would have asked for your considered opinion by now..." and walk away!
2006-09-27 19:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie_dee24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look honey just because he called you "fat" doesn't mean that U R it means that he's an a%#@*le. So don't sweat it if he says that you're "fat" again say your'e right I am Pretty Hot And Tempting that's the true meaning of fat but its spelled PHAT and that's you. He just makes fun of you and others to overcompensate for a small d*^%. Lots of love
2006-09-27 18:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by neicy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
dear
if someone call me fat , as soon as possible i consult with a doctor to check my weight with my high and my bone size to understand if i am fat or not(there is an especial formula for it) and if i am i ask the doctor for an appropriate diet and sure i would do sport and yoga exercises.
good luck
2006-09-27 19:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by lida m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find A Boy That Likes Ya
2006-09-27 18:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do?
You should totally confront him and ask him his reasoning to it.
Chances are he won't know what to say about the confrontation.
If he gives you one, look him in the face and tell him that even if it may be, he's still a @$$hole. And then just walk off.
2006-09-27 19:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nabila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are fat, or aren't fat doesn't matter.
What he said was mean.
If it happens again, challenge him, ask him why he thinks he can say things like that to you or to anyone.
Stand up for yourself - let him know you have a brain and a spine and aren't going to take his crap.
and remember... it's important to be beautiful on the inside too.
2006-09-27 18:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by zale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i knew what age group we were dealing with. Be nice to the guy. when people say mean things to other people, they're trying to provoke a negative response. Be positive with you response. After a while he'll stop, because you're not doing what he wants. Trust me, I used to be that guy. Best of luck. Dave
2006-09-27 18:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by dave w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously this is not a guy you want to date anyway if looks mean so much to him. Don't let him bring your spirit down weather your were fat or not, what is important is who you are and how you feel about yourself---loose the looser.
2006-09-27 18:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by sagie29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy the hottest guy in the world? I would have to say probably not. Usually the guys who complain about girls and the way we look are usually gross and ugly themselves.
2006-09-27 18:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by blahblah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋