Well I just found out that my 20 year old sister is expecting a baby, well she is not 100% sure of this, but she wants to get marry I did not spec this from my sister what should I do.
2006-09-27 11:38:47 · 33 answers · asked by A_n_d_Y 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just be there for her and support her in any decision that she makes. I have a brother and since he found out i was pregnant (i dont wanna get married tho) he hasnt stopped making stupid comments that only make me feel bad, so dont do the same, be there for your sister she needs you!
2006-09-27 11:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by verypretty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get ready to become an uncle, support her and buy ur niece/nephew some baby clothes which will show that you are supporting your sister. If you think its wrong that she is gonna have a baby think about this; whats done is done and what can you do from this point? start with cuddling her for instance. It will be a good thing and will make her better instead of giving her bad looks. Coz, women as far as i know get more emotional when they are pregnant. My cousin had the same problem and her family didnt support her and she had an awful pregnancy...Is it worth having that kinda stuff??
2006-09-27 11:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by AllsTar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a suggestion...how about support because this is a big step in your sister's life and even though you did not expect this to happen still she is your sister and if no one else is there you need to be this is your neice or nephew she is pregnant with!She will need someone trust...not sure if she wants to marry the guy she is pregnant by? She will even need your guidance with this issue so just be there!
2006-09-27 11:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by random_thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say 20 years old is young to have a child. Just be supportive and listen to what she has to say. Be in her corner. Let her know education is important and explain the role of being a parent to her so she will be prepared when the baby is born
2006-09-27 11:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by sassy s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Support her. Show her you love her. She is obviously of age and knows what she is doing. We all do things that we may not like or others may not like. She will remember you for your support and love. If she wants to get married, that will be up to her and the father of the child. I would not recommend that she gets married just because she is pregnant. That usually doesn't work out.
Just love your sister and be there for her.
2006-09-27 11:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Congrats, your now an Uncle! You should be very supportive and help her out with her journey of motherhood.Is she only getting married cause she is pergnat or does she really love this man? You should sit down and seriously talk to her 'bout this! You don't want your baby sister to be unhappy do you?Trust me on this one I was in her shoes once and it wasn't no fairy tail!! Contact me at Stupiedblonde92@yahoo.com If so.If I'm not on leave me an e-mail!!
Chow,
Ashley
PS. Good luck!! Your gonna need it!!
2006-09-27 11:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i chanced on some preparation on line i'm hoping this helps... don't be discoureged if it is not what you had to take heed to because of the fact statistically a toddler born at 23 weeks basically has a 10 to 35% probability of survival...that is genuine yet truthfully I even have confidence that climate or not this toddler survives relies upon on the wish and faith of the folk around it tutor... U could have confidence that not something is going to take place and that the toddler will stay to tell the story... i'm sorry that the toddler grow to be born so early yet shop the religion and that i'm hoping that your sisters toddler pulls with the aid of and is physically powerful and healthful I wish you all of the main suitable... stable luck to you adult males.. uncomplicated issues between preemies especially, the closer to the due date that a toddler is born, the greater advantageous his or her probability is for being born healthful. Even some days or even weeks could make a great distinction: a toddler born at 23 weeks has basically a 10 to 35 % probability of surviving and greater suitable than 50 % probability of a protracted-term disability. At only 25 weeks, survival improves to between 50 and 80 %, and the probabilities of a protracted-term disability drop to between 15 and 25 %. At 27 to 29 weeks, survival costs are above ninety %, and disability costs fall to below 10 %. between 34 and 37 weeks, survival costs are magnificent (greater suitable than ninety 8 %), and probabilities of long-term disability are narrow -- below 5 %. particular issues are very uncomplicated -- only approximately nicely-known -- between preemies. those incorporate sleep apnea (whilst respiration stops for the period of sleep), difficulty ingesting (because of the fact of vulnerable and uncoordinated muscle tissues), and jaundice (yellowish epidermis because of the fact the liver isn't working effectively). different uncomplicated issues incorporate abdomen hernias, acid reflux ailment, respiration problems, atypical blood sugar regulation, and coronary heart progression that continues to be incomplete.
2016-10-01 10:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for here and support her decisions. She's an adult and whether you like it or not she can do whatever she pleases and is not gonna make every decision based on how you would take it. She's got to live her own life so just be there and support her. I think you would make a great uncle.
2006-09-27 11:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulate her you are now an uncle
im was pregnate 6months ago and was 20 now 21 in a week
its good for her a that age anyway. by the way dont say these facts about you do this and on and on to her only listen to her
2006-09-27 11:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by sharon b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg u swear..shes old enough and if she wanted to get married then she should have protected herself..but she didnt..so too bad she had to deal with the consequences...i mean shes 20! i thought u were gonna say she was like 15 or 16..
2006-09-27 12:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ladylucious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋