how do you resolve conflict?

Question

can you tell me the answer of this that i just want to know about it ..can you??

Answer 1

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TYPE OF CONFLICT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. THERE ARE MANY DIFFERENT KINDS OF VERY DIFFERENT DEGREES AND THEY HVE DIFFERENT WAYS TO DEAL WITH THEM: Minor irritating conflicts that do not really effect you seriously we all need to learn to shrug off and walk away. So what if you are right? Is it really that important that your "friend" wants to date your boyfriend or girlfriend. This is too minor to even be concerned with. So what if someone called you a lier and your are not. What's in a name. You know if you have integrity and so do your real friends. Relax. Walk away. So what if you think god exists and your brother doesn't.. You know what you know and what he thinks is not really that important if your are really secure in what you do believe. Walk away. Don't waste time fighting over religion, politics or any other thing for that matter. Its all minor. What you are, the quality of your character and your own personal integrity is more imprtant than trying to make everyone believe like you do.

Moderate conflicts involve more important things but are stiil not earth shattering or big enough to lose friends break up with family over. Only you can judge whether your conflict is a minor or moderate one. But in a moderate one action can be important. That is don't walk away but use some techniques to try to resolve them. First really look at yoiurself. Be sure that you are not over-reacting. Be sure you have what is called "clean hands". Ask yourself if you are causing the conflict. Are you adding to it? Are you the one putting gasoline on the fire. Once you make yourself clean by these soul-searching questions then go to the other person and just try to talk about the conflict without using accusatory words. No name calling, No blaming. But rather stating how you feel. These are "I" messages : " I feel very bad when you do that." "I feel very lonely when you spend more time with the dog than with me" " I really hurt deeply inside when I find out that you didn't tell me the truth." and so on. If the relationship is worth saving, talk to the person, and keep on talking. If they won't talk, express what you are feeling without accusation and hope for another day. Some times people will hear you but can not quite deal with it when you are talking to them. But the fact that you express yourself with out condemning them frequently makes them think and sometimes they become willing to resolve the conflict later.
Major conflict is of great importance because it usually involves trust, breach of trust, issues of character and your core values involving honesty, your personal integrity (not theirs) and money or sex . If your conflict doesn't involve issues like these issues then it is not major and you need to just deal with it like above. However if they involve these issues at a serious level you need to still confront the person involved with you feelings and without accusation, name calling or nasty explosion explain you position, how you feel about it with "I" messages and stand you ground. But recognize that sometimes what you think is major is only moderate or even minor once you begin to talk to the other person. So as much as possible try to resolve lthe conflict openly. But if it involves your very core of integrity, your honesty or trust that others have placed in you, think very carefully and be prepared to break up a relationship if reconcilliation with your integrity in tack becomes impossible. Be strong. Be willing to work things out, but do not sell your soul for a bowl of porrige.

Answer 2

The best way to resolve conflict is to talk it out and in the end if the conflict still can't be resolved just agree to disagree. Or you can do like this t-shirt I saw said--Don't go to bed angry, stay up all night plotting your revenge. Personally, I'd go with the first option.

Answer 3

Talk it out. Or punch the living daylights out of whomever ur havin a conflict with. Either way. Lol.

Answer 4

Don't talk to eachother for a bit. Then make a coffee date to make up

Answer 5

Of course I can. I would take my glock 40 cal and cap his a--

Answer 6

thru violin's. maybe a Viola

Answer 7

by being positive,