i hv been through some tough relationships and one of my hardest was when i had a big group of friends and i went out with one of the guys in it after we broke up the whole group split and i lost alot of really good friends i could not stand it cuz all of us us to go to the movies etc. and now we don't even tlk anymore well i am in the same situation but with a different group and this time it is more people and i am scared that might happen to me again and i really hated that i am not sure if i should just go out wit him if he ask me out wit he told my friend he was going to ask me out or just not flirt and stay friends plz help me this is really importan!!!
2006-09-27 11:26:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i suggest dating another fella and hanging out with that group in your spare time. after a while, you can choose which group is the better one...and...if things go bad at one, you still have the other. if you're not married to the group, it's really not cheating. if however, you have married the group, it is cheating (still i recommend it!).
i am not a shrink, however, i did stay at a holiday inn express last night!
2006-09-27 12:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by bill loomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If he asks you out and you want to go, go! I dont think everyone broke the group up just because you went out with one guy. So dont be so hard on yourself, friends should support you if two of you want to go out and even see each other.
2006-09-27 11:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you learned from that first experience? Act accordingly.
2006-09-27 11:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋