My fiancée is has become very pissed off lately and isn’t too happy for some reason, she’s about to be my wife and 7 months pregnant next month…she hasn’t had any mood swings before this and now all of a sudden she is. I don’t know what to do to keep her happy right now becuz I know she’s having a hard time with the pregnancy and the wedding all at once. What should I do to relax and help her?
2006-09-27 11:26:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
In a way, I don't like the idea of asking someone to tell me everything they want me to do..for obvious reasons. But since you seem like a guy with some insight into how his woman feels, you are half way there. First, be sure that she wants this wedding to happen. If she does, then that worry is gone. Being pregnant is something in itself, dear. Growing a whole new person inside you causes every emotion there is, happiness, worry (there are a million things women worry about, will the baby be healthy, will she be a good mom, on and on...), depression or moodiness from her hormones changing so much, doubt that she is still attractive even when her toes swell and the dreaded stetchmarks pop out, lol. discomfort from having this new person jabbing and kungfooing her all night (maybe she's even losing some sleep). Having a baby is one of the top major stressors that there is and guess what...so is getting married, lol. Be supportive, do small things for her physically that make her feel good, and ask her simply how her day is going and then listen to what she says. Since you sound so caring, i'll bet you will know just what to do. Let her know how you feel about things too. Congrats, and good luck to you both. Hope you have a happy healthy baby too:)
2006-09-27 11:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have answered your question there, she is moody because of the pressure of the pregnancy and the wedding, two major things in her life seeming to be happening all at once. I think really the best thing to do, is just to listen to her, let her open up to you. Make sure she knows you are there for her to help her in anyway she needs and that you will always be there to listen to her. Sometimes just letting out your problems help, and she might just be bottling them up.
I hope this helps and good luck!
2006-09-27 18:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do everything you can.
Ask her to give you a list of everything you can do, take care of...
If she won't let you, then ask her what you can do for her.
At 7 months, massage is like heaven, warm milk baths are divine---and anything you can do to keep her off her feet will be a godsend.
Congratulations and Good luck!
2006-09-27 18:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by steelypen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try to help her out!! Give her a back rub!! Rub her feet!! Do the dishes!! Cleanup around the house!!! Help her plan the wedding!!! Help her get the baby stuff ready!! Cook dinner or even better take her out for dinner!!
2006-09-27 18:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by marie_amanda2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hormones are wonderful, aren't they? I would be stressed out if I was her too. Fixing to be a mother AND a wife. Be as supportive as you can, and help the poor thing out. Buy her presents too, she might like that :-) (Good luck too, I REALLY mean it)
2006-09-27 19:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. Its not easy doing both at the same time. I had to do the same thing. Just try as hard as you can not to get upset. It will all be over soon;)
2006-09-27 18:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
moddy???
Ask her what she wants and DO IT!
If she says nothing then remind her that you are asking, that you genuinely want to help and maybe she should take time to think about it before saying NOTHING!
Be nice to her.
2006-09-27 18:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this better not be my husband :|.......
just kidding. she is moody. have you seen a non pregnant bride to be??? jesus mary and joseph, that kind of woman is evil. and put on natural hormones on top of that? i'd be careful. i'm surprised she hasn't killed you.
ask her if she wants you to do anything. and when she tells you, actually do it!
2006-09-27 18:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take on more of the responsibility's
2006-09-27 18:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by hollie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read your question... you've answered it yourself.
2006-09-27 18:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by Alicat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋