why do people say "your too fat" or "no i dont like you". why dont they just reject you nicely???
2006-09-27 11:12:56 · 11 answers · asked by kate 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
i wouldn't answer this question usually, but you seemed so sincere...and the stupid people that replied before me didn't know exactly what to say...so, here i am:
the reason 'why' some people know what to say, while others are stupid goes deeper than what your previous answerers had the intellect for.
it starts with genetics, then up-bringing, then education and life experiences...then they open their mouths. if you have someone say, "you're too fat" or "no, i don't like you", believe me, it is not you. you could even be unlikable and fat...still that doesn't excuse their behavior.
at least you can picture his dad being mean to him as a kid to know that you don't personally have to get back at him.
i will admit that i am not a psychologist, however, i did stay at a holiday inn express last night!
2006-09-27 12:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by bill loomer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, not everyone has COMMON SENSE. Even some very smart people do not have common sense. And some people just simply do not understand or maybe do not even know how to be polite. Manners are something that are taught by the parents. If parent has poor parenting skills then most likey the child will not be able to do or express certain things. People are sometimes rude even though they are smart and well skilled. These people just enjoy being a pain in the butt and are most likely happy to entertain themselves alone all day. So you do not need them anyway. Feel better that you know how to treat people and find people to hang with that are more like you. Also, it would not hurt at all to be blunt with them and simply say "I didn't appreciate that." No other statements necessary. And simply go about your day. Do not comment to any of their comments this just gets them going more.
2006-09-27 11:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by Leash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a sad fact that many people do not learn proper manners. There's not much you can do about it, except perhaps in modeling good manners for them. But really, if they haven't learned it from their parents when they were young, they are going to be classed with the low and the crude, and you may as well stay out of their way. Once they get to hanging around with other low and crude types, there's little hope they will learn better.
2006-09-27 11:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are no nice people left over in this world that's why kid. Our only option is to grow a backbone and slap the piss out of anyone that does you wrong. It's the Christian way.
2006-09-27 11:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by tracy82_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people find watching someone's self esteem lower right their before them enjoyable, like myself.
It's an amazing feeling to be cruel to someone for absolutely no reason at all.
It makes my day to see it happen.
2006-09-27 11:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if everyone has a delicate pallete then we wouldn't be able to decide what fit us right, My best friend in the whole wide universe tells it like it is and sometimes its hard to take but sometimes its just what the doctor ordered, the universe just needs a balance of everyone and everything, big hugs
2006-09-27 11:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People arent stupid they're just nervous and aren't quick thinkers like others
2006-09-27 11:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by Angie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some of them is funny , for other is just for make feel themself better talking bad about the people .
2006-09-27 11:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're inconsiderate.
2006-09-27 11:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are rude and losers.
2006-09-27 11:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋