my husband is saying he doesnt love me anymore i need any advice to make him love me again
2006-09-27 10:45:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly you can't make him love you again. You should really see if there's any chance to make things work, if he still has a spark. If he still believes in this marriage and if he's willing to rediscover the feelings he obviously once had for you, if so then try counseling and if not then you know now before you waste any more of your life loving someone not deserving of your love or attention. I'm sure your a great person and I truly believe that there's someone out there for all of us and you'll find your prince if it's not your current husband. GOOD LUCK :)
2006-09-27 10:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you can't make anyone love you. If nothing has changed then maybe he has met someone else...actually you are better of without this man. Why would anyone want to be with this type of person? In my opinion he is playing around and wants you to walk out to make him feel better! He is playing mind games. I don't know you so I don't know what to suggest. You either give in and go, or you make life difficult for him (which is what I would do) and tell him you'll always be there and always love him and you won't leave him. This will scare him and make him make the next move! Good luck - this man isn't worth having!
2006-09-27 12:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww..sorry to hear that.u can,t make him love u..though u could sit down n talk and ask wot the reason is or when ,n why he stopped loving u...and if there is a chance he could again...he loved u once ..have u changed....has he changed...if he is willing to try n get things back to way things were perhaps u both need to change..perhaps u both might have just gone as far as ur relationship goes...perhaps its best to be friends rather than get to stage u could hate each other..don,t loose a friendship that could be real good..cus u must have good things in common as u would never would of got married in first place.
2006-09-27 10:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by lippylisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'll see a marriage councelor but it may be too late. You can also try starting over and get to know each other again with the hope that perhaps he may fall in love with you again but that will require a lot of effort understanding and patience.
2006-09-27 10:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you and what does that say for your self-esteem. Has he got someone else? If he is planning to split up with you you shouldn't make yourself seem pathetic and needy, lose some weight, have a new haircut, buy some funky new clothes and walk out door looking like a million dollars! Good Luck. (He will probably regret it when he sees you looking for good but that's up to you then).
2006-09-28 00:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this but you can't make anyone love you. You can't change another person or how that person feels. If he really doesn't love you let him go. You deserve someone that will truly love you. If you continue to stay with a man that doesn't love you, you are depriving yourself of true happiness.
2006-09-27 11:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't try to make him love you again. If he stayed with you you'll always feel he's not 100% in love and with you. It's one of the harest things to do but you need to move on and if he realises he was wrong and comes back to you, thats when you'll be able to think clearly and decide what you want, but please give yourself time to heal from this, it's a hard thing to hear and you need to take a big breath and look at it clearly. Good Luck I really Feel For You :)
2006-09-27 10:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, you must be feeling really bad at the moment.
Don't try to make him love you, you can't anyway.
Learn to love yourself and give yourself time to get to know yourself.
Get on with your life and forget about him, I know it will be hard, but in time it will get better and hopefully you'll really like yourself and you won't care what he thinks.
You don't want someone who doesn't love you.
2006-09-27 11:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bonnie Raitt siad it best, " Cause I can't make you love me if you don't...You can't make the heart feel somethin' it won't...Here in the dark, these final hours, I can lay down my heart, and I feel the power, but you won't, no, you won't..." That may not be verbatim, but the answer is this - accept the pain and don't humiliate yourself any further. Hold your head up high and tell him to pi55 off.
2006-09-27 10:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by applebetty34 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work out the difference between before and after and see if there is anything you can do to change things back to how they were
Mission impossible and impractical but if it is what you want, go for it girl.
2006-10-01 02:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋