thanks for every one who gave me answers of my previous question.befor marriage we both do love making or forplay u can say but after marriage no forplay.only do it like duty.
2006-09-27 10:35:28 · 17 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Meet him in the middle, let him do it his way one time, then the next he has to cuddle, etc..
2006-09-27 10:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him no he should respect that answer for what it is worth. No man should ever force his wife to have sex with him and he shouldn't punish her when she refuses to have sex with him. After all, marriage is supposed to be a celebration of two individuals uniting together. If your husband took the vows seriously then he should understand your thoughts, needs, and wants with respect. If he does not then I would be careful because he may have assumed that he just bought a piece of property when he signed the marriage license.
2006-09-27 17:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is why did the sex change after you got married. Put that foreplay back into your sex life and maybe it want feel like a duty. Put some romance or role playing or both into the mix.
2006-09-27 17:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Rose,
Sounds to me that, sadly, you have found yourself in a loveless relationship.
Either that or one with little respect. I would honestly ask myself if I really wanted to continue in such an arrangement or whether I would prefer to being in one offering reciprocal love and romance.
Flowers and chocolates on occasions would be nice.
You know what, he is out there!
James.
2006-09-27 17:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out together on a holiday to a nice place and take time to explain about your feelings. Train him slowly, if you both love each other it should be possible.
2006-09-27 18:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should ever be forced into doing anything they don't want to do, especially when it comes to sex. It is okay to say no. Perhaps though, it might help to suggest to your husband, that the more pleasurable he makes the experience for you, the more you might actually desire him.
2006-10-01 10:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by shancelt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay should be for at least 20 minutes before shagging. buy him kama suthra book to read. The Indian art of love making.
2006-09-30 02:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets have the question in english then you might stand a chance of getting an answer
2006-09-27 17:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tim N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try buying him a book on how to make a woman happy, I had one and he read it and things changed. men just need educating. be tactful though or he could be really insulted
2006-09-28 06:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grin and bare it... Love is a two way street... perhaps you need to step up to the plate !
2006-09-27 18:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋