What two things do you find to be the most difficult about loving another?

Question

Why?

Sorry I wasn't clear.

I mean what is it about loving your beloved, or any person (child, friend, family member) that you find difficult or painful.

What is it that you find difficult about loving?

Doesn't have to be two, or only two.

List as many as you like :-))

Answer 1

Sacrifice
Equanimity
Doubt/lack of trust (been hurt in past)
jealousy
unconfidence
and many more lil hang ups that make relationships an "interesting challenge"

Answer 2

I had to face that recently. My soon to be ex and best friend had to leave the state because there were some bad influences here...it was very difficult seeing him go but when you love someone you let them go in order for them to have a better life even tho you will only see them once or twice a year if that..he is a long distance trucker now...also, getting a divorce was not an easy decision but it was for the best for us both. Letting go is very difficult..as well as putting yourself first from time to time. I put myself last most of the time when it comes to family and loved ones. You have to do things for yourself too.

Answer 3

are you talking about another love , or another person to love ?
I will be back once I know...

Thus , it came much clearer

Well , you know the reasons that makes love difficult comes originally from the meaning of love ..
just look it with me ..

*Love means being together .. it is too difficult for lovers to get apart
*Love means trust .. how is it when you find your beloved untrusted ?
*Love means sacrify .. how about a selfish lover ..can we imagine his existance ?

and so on .. so that we can find as many reasons as we can describe love

Answer 4

What I find the most difficult part of loving someone is that it takes away from loving myself-

I know this sounds selfish, and ego-centric and it is, but think about it- all the other reason given will all point back to this one point.

Answer 5

Hmm... You seem actual in love along with her. may well be shez have been given some probs at residing house n is annoyed over that. do no longer shop askin her questions as she seems to hate it. do no longer pour out your love so generously. ladies often experience which you're too gentle once you do so. They style of get aggravated over that. So have an off-the-cuff communicate along with her askin what she did, what shez gonna do for something of the day n issues like that. next time u chat, be casual. do no longer lose wish. maximum serious.

Answer 6

I love my son so much. It cannot even be put into words. The hardest thing about that is seeing him in pain, physically or emotionally, or the potential hurt his neglecting father may one day cause him, when he's old enough to know what the world is about. That is what's hard about loving someone, seeing them hurting.

Answer 7

1. When they don't love you back because it's emotionally depressing.

2. Also, keeping the relationship interesting. Sometimes, I get so settled with my boyfriend..I love him but sometimes wish that we could spend quality time and getting to know each other instead of following our daily routines with work etc.

Answer 8

Why only 2?
Sometimes love doesn't come back in the same measure it is given.
Sometimes love doesn't last forever.

Answer 9

#1: Accepting who they really are on the inside not on the outside. #2:If you don't have anything in common in interests with the other person.

Answer 10

Being observe another, and being observe beliefs of another. Both may well initiate harsh judgment. Judgment is that which makes love miserable...