I gave this guy my phone number reluctantly, but I'm not attracted to him. He calls me, but I really don't like him. How can I be nice and tell him I'm not interested. I only gave it to him, b/c I felt backed into a corner. I really don't even wanna be his friend.
2006-09-27 10:22:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you came out of the closet since you gave him your number. Life is clearer now that you have been honest with yourself about your needs. He'll understand.....
2006-09-27 10:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When he calls, tell him that you are now in a relationship.
Tell him you wish to honor your new relationship. Any thing else would be asking for trouble , one way or another. Before you call , Think of things he might ask , don't be to open. Don't give any info. Just say that when you gave the number, you were single, but an old flame came back into your life.
2006-09-27 10:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest the next time he calls. Maybe apologize for giving him the wrong impression by giving him your phone number & tell him that you’re not interested in a relationship. No need to get upset or make excuses & don’t let him talk you into anything. And for God sake, do NOT tell him you want to be friends if that’s not true. Then don’t take his calls any more.
2006-09-27 10:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Celt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the next time he calls that you are a bit busy right now. That when you have the time you will call him, and say please don't call me I hate hearing the phone ring, it bothers me, I hear it so much at work that I don't like or something like that. Just ell him that when you want to talk to him you will call him. Maybe he will get the idea. And if he calls you again, just say I will call you when I have time OK? see ya, and hang up the phone, He will get the message then.
2006-09-27 11:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jason ( or what ever his name is) I am never very good at saying these things so I am just going to come right out and say it. I am not interested in pursuing a relationship with you and I am going to ahve to ask you to stop calling me. - And then just be silent. Don;t over talk or you will dig yourself into a hole you can't get out of.
2006-09-27 10:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I may have given you the wrong impression when I gave you my number. I'm sorry, but I don't think we're compatible and to be honest, I'm so busy I wouldn't be able to be much of a friend. Take care. Bye."
2006-09-27 10:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Instead of women beating around the bush or making up a lie, just come straight out and tell us, we'll respect you more in the end...
2006-09-27 10:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by jon m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should say the most common used phrase its not you its me but things arent working out I was hoping we can just be friends. But after that change your number so he wont stalk you.
2006-09-27 10:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by anythingeverythingucanb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats weird is that i known people like that but the best thing to do is slowly stop talking to him since being nice and talking to him only encourages him to go after you , since you seem to have friends im sure losing 1 friend wouldnt kill you so if he makes you uncomfortable then just slowly stop talking to him then he will get the hint and move on...
2016-03-27 13:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you aren't interested in him, it would be best if he stop calling, block his number.
2006-09-27 10:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋