First off, I never touched her, its a harassment one in wisconsin, I went to her place after we had a nasty argument, where she said I would never know any information till the baby is born, and we all know miscarriages happen, I just want to know pregnancy details and leave her alone. Previous incidents include me going to her mother's to talk with her, or when she went to her mom's work, I went there to talk, I never threatened harm, im guilty of being impatient and wanting to resolve conflict, but these got thrown in my face in court as stalking. We broke up several times and got back together, her friends wrote letters saying I was parked outside of her place, when inreality I was in her apartment and she was afraid to tell her friends we were still sleeping together.Her friend said she witnessed me being physical when my ex denied it to her and me. I feel like I got jobbed,I was an *** during the arguments and said hurtful things, but she did to, do I have a leg to stand on?
2006-09-27 10:22:08 · 6 answers · asked by Nathan 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
All my teenage years and know i'm 24, I have wanted to be a father, but not like this i'm heartbroken , all I want is information and a way to get this dropped. The judge looked at her pretty eyes and sweet voice and stuck me. Its 2 years long. It says no third party contacts to her, but can my mother contact her mom, to find out info, i'm stuck and heartbroken.
2006-09-27 10:24:12 · update #1
she's only 6 weeks along, and still may get an abortion or who knows give it up for adoption, can I do anything?
2006-09-27 10:26:22 · update #2
and yes I do think were toxic for each other but I still feel i should have a right to know about the pregnancy, I can move on from her, but not,not knowing about a part of me that is growing.
2006-09-27 10:40:17 · update #3
If you want to contest the restraining order and/or protect your parental rights, you'll have to hire a lawyer. But I think you're better off letting her go. You'll find someone else, and have another chance to be a dad.
If the restraining order doesn't say your mom can't talk to her mom, then that's allowed. That may be a good way to find out about the baby. But take care not to abuse that line of communication, or it too will close.
2006-09-27 10:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by rainfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. You are putting too much pressure on her. It sounds like the 2 of you are toxic to each other. Stay away as ordered. The judge made a good decision.
2006-09-27 10:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am from wi too and I know how easy it is to get restraining orders there, but you should still have some right to knowing when your own child is born! I really dont know what to tell you except ask the judge for an exception, and that would be to have HER phone you about the baby situation. if its court ordered then she HAS to do it. good luck!
2006-09-27 10:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by flutterflie04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get dna to make sure it is yours, start getting all that legal krap in order like visitation, child support etc. or give up your parental rights and get on gone. chances are if she's evil like you're saying she's just gonna make your life a living hell with that baby. all that's gonna do is effect the baby's life in a negative way. do what's best for the baby. good luck. i hope everything works out for you and the baby. and love that baby hopefully she will have a change of heart when the baby is born.
2016-03-27 13:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly. I think you need to show her you are serious and are respecting her decision right now. Back off, leave her alone, and let her concentrate on her pregnancy. If you have any chance at all its probably not going to come while she's hormonal.
2006-09-27 10:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by USMC Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would go get a lawyer....tell him/her what is going on...tell them EVERYTHING, tell them what you have been charged with and why, dont sugar code anything....tell them you dont want anything to do with her..but you do want something to do with your baby and you would like to know about how her pregnancy is going....and ask them for their advice...they should be able to spounge up something that will help you out...Good luck.
2006-09-27 10:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋