ah okay so im a sophmore girl and i guess i kind of like this guy in my math class. hes really hot and he plays soccer and i go to all his games but i know i have no chance with him whatsoever because hes really popular (well kind of) and the girls he's friends with are the prettiest in the school. me on the otherhand, am not ugly. i am 5'3 tan, long straight brown hair, and green eyes. but i feel like i have nooo chance with him. so tommorow afterschool me and him have to stay after with a teacher to review for some quiz because were both failing the class (and also im failing the class becasue im sitting there LOOKING at him, ugh that always happens) im hoping to god its just me and him and no other girl to take him away from me. and tommorow i dont have a ride home and he drives and i hope so bad he can give me a ride home! that would be the greatest thing ever. should i stop fantasizing me and him together? hahah
2006-09-27 10:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by alexa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i dont know he likes me or not.. i dont talk to him .. he said hi to me once at the football game and he stares at me alot in class. i dont know! i have no chance anyway hes a junior
2006-09-27 10:24:04 · update #1
im not ugly.. alot of guys seem to like me im tall, italian, and tan and i can get so many other guys but i feel like i only want him
2006-09-27 10:27:29 · update #2
im pretty sure hes a player but i seriously do even care cause ive been played so many times that in highschool all you can do is have fun and its not the time for a steady relationship
2006-09-27 10:28:55 · update #3
Fantasies are just something you think about you cant stop, ive tried it doesnt work. If he doesnt know you i doubt he will give you a ride but he might. Ask him out, guys like younger girls sometimes.
2006-09-27 13:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and talk to him. A ride home would be a good pretense for having some time to talk. If you get to know him he might like you for you and not worry about who you're friends with or how "popular" you are. Then again, he might be hung up on that stuff, in which case you should just move on. There are probably a ton of hot guys at your school and other schools.
BTW, by saying "I have no chance with him" you are pretty much guaranteeing you have no chance. Change your attitude and be more positive about yourself.
2006-09-27 10:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by kaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, calm down, and hold the phone :)
you have to have confidence. there's always a chance. i always say. "the answer is ALWAYS 'no', if you don't ask." well, anyways. most of my friends and i are with older guys. not like seriously old, if that's what you're thinking. more like 1 or two years. ;) anyways. i think that you should get him to notice you. when you review, you should start answering questions like crazy, especially if you know them. because most guys like smart girls. and he'll definitely notice if you're the one always raising your hand and answering questions. don't act too desperate and make things really obvious. drop a few hints here and there like in class. also, try making little inside jokes with him. that always works when you're trying to make a guy notice you. if you sit close to him, you should drop a pencil right next to him and ask him if he could get it for you. then when he picks it up, look him in the eyes, smile, and say thank you. slowly and casually. it sounds pretty corny, but i assure you, it'll work.
&& to get a ride home from him. try getting out of the review session before he does. maybe, like try putting your stuff away faster. then wait outside where he usually comes out of the school, just so where he could see you. then if he's nice enough, he'd notice you and ask for a ride? hahaha, maybe that might not work, but i don't usually try getting rides home from guys.
i bet in no time, he'll totally fall for you. good luck! :)
ohh, and try to stop looking at him in class. you still have school, and i bet your parents would probably freak out if they ever find out that you're failing all because of a guy :)
think in class. and drool all over him in the hallways ;)
2006-09-27 12:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by hello :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 04:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by birchett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, first of all baby girl, you need to get a boost in your self-confidence. In order for anybody else to love you or even like you, you need to love/like yourself. Never say that you're not good enough for somebody. If he's hung up on high school social standings then maybe he's not good enough for you. Also, it's normal to have crushes in high school, and to get side-tracked, but you really should put more effort into not failing your classes than staring at him. Remember, he's just a person...try talking to him and see where it goes.
2006-09-27 11:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Independent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be flirty, try to start with some humor, see if he responds well and if you don't feel pretty, maybe for x-mas you could ask for a make over, just a little something to make you feel better and more confident. Maybe a new hairstyle and tips to enhance the beauty others may already see in you.
2006-09-27 10:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on school Boys are trouble at that age trust me I went to JR prom with a 4week old baby at home!
Stay away from the players and be very cautious!!!
2006-09-27 11:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Mom2two Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guys prespective, hes definitely interested. he wouldn't look at you if he wasnt - go for it!
2006-09-27 10:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Peter S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is alittle creepy.
2006-09-27 13:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋