ok .. at my highschool i have a rep for being a hoe ... but the thing is i never did nething wit a guy there and i just moved out here .. i have ionly dated two guys in the past two months so how can i be a hoe ... right now i am datein this boy name toy and he is great but neways .. now ppl think i have herpes and stuff how can i clear my rep before its too late
2006-09-27 09:55:49 · 25 answers · asked by meggie_boo_0117 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's too late...just transfer to a different school..........
2006-09-27 09:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry ppl are so mean . Once a rumor starts it's hard to undo. Act like a lady.treat other people like you want to be treated.
My daughters friend told a group of boys that she had genitle warts.She need know what they were but it sounded bad because she was mad at her. I told the girls mom and found out that the step dad had them so her mom flipped her lid. It did blow over.Give it some time. People are prob jealous of you for some unknown stupid reason. Let Toy know that you don't have herpes and never did.Goodluck Grandma.
2006-09-27 17:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously hunny, drop the crowd you are hanging with and focus on school. maybe because u are more into this whole dating boys thing that ppl are getting the wrong impression of you right away. it could be the guys u r hanging around with. maybe find some friends that have their heads in the right places...and keep to yourself a bit more. gossip and drama can ruin your high school experience. There are certain ppl that i call " toxic", and those are the ones u dont want to be associated with. ppl will always see u as a part of their clique when trouble starts. BE SMART AND LOOK SMART. thats what u do
2006-09-27 17:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl
just stand up for yourself. but if they do not listen to you, let them belive what they want to. as long ay YOU know yau ar enot a hoe, everything will be okay. Just live your life. They have no right to talk about you. But the only reason they are, is because they have no lives of their own. Take it from me. I have been called a hoe, like so many times, and I ignored them, and they stopped. besides, if I can do it, so can you. Also You are in high school, and guess what. I am an 8th grader. so really, all you have to do is tell them to shut up, and mind their own buissiness!
**I am such a bad speller**
***If you want to talk 2 me, my AIM is jordiboo6, and my myspace is
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Hope I helped!
~Jordan
2006-09-27 17:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably part of the reputation is how you are dressing and/or behaving. It's one thing to want to be accepted and "be cool" but maybe unconsciously you are sending the wrong message to people. Are you dressing really provocatively? Why don't you go to a favorite clothing store or even a big store in a mall like Macy's and ask one of their personal shopper for their opinion on your wardrobe and what suggestions they would make in terms of helping you project a better image to others....
2006-09-27 17:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you want to clear your rep......Start getting sassy (could possible get into a fight) Example:
A girl/guy say, " she is a Hoe or That ***** got herpes" You say A) If I got herpes or if I am a hoe then that goes versa for the one who had yo ***. or B) whom ever say or think I got herpes or think I am a hoe then how would you know? C) Since all yall think I am a hoe or got herpes....I am glad yall taggin my pu**y .
Or you can just let them say what they want its just jealousy...they probably want to be you or want who wants you...Let them talk....you are who you are and only good will come to you if you are good.
2006-09-27 17:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by kie kie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like it don't bother you, if you don't have stds no worries, least you are the center of other people's worlds... you will see once you are outta high school that all people do there is try to be bigger and better. as for you question there isn't really anything you can do people are going to think what they wanna just live knowing you know the truth and those f-a-g-s can keep yapping about you... makes you all the more popular ;)
2006-09-27 16:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by swingorstrikeout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know if it would help your rep or not but you might try spending less time worrying about what other people think and more time being concerned with your studies. I would put special emphasis on the spelling and writing parts.
2006-09-27 16:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by toff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you but you cant but usually people just dont say it unless youve actually did something with someone at the school. i go to a messy school like that too and my friend has that rep and she cant clear it either but she had sex with one person out here and it jsut got blown out of proportion! so have you did those things? but it doesnt matter thats what you do **** everybody else and what they think yuo have a good man and your going to get haters every where you go!
2006-09-27 16:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by BabyDoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people judge by appearance. Maybe your looks are making those people think you are a hoe. Why should you care what they think? Do you want to be friends with them? I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who thinks I'm a hoe.
2006-09-27 16:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by simvils 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront anyone who has said anything about you. make sure you dont give it up to soon, Not saying you do but... Dont be so flirty. Most of all you know your self what you are. So it dont matter! What goes on in high school is people that either want to be like you. Or want something you have that they dont. Dont worry about them! Once your out of high school non of that matters anyways!
Best of luck to you =)
2006-09-27 17:01:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋