She's buying our old car, and she's wants to pay in advance before she takes it, she's half paid, I told her to take the car already, but she wants to show my wife that's shes becoming more responsible. What do I do?
2006-09-27 09:52:17 · 40 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I need to speak to your wife immediatly....SHE should be collecting the money and not telling YOU. Geez...some women just need help in handling men's finances. Rule #1...any extra money coming into the household is none of his business and should always be spent at Nordstrom. Stop taking advantage of the poor girl, obviously her Mom didn't train her very well.
2006-09-27 10:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just treating you like a brother. Are you sure she is coming on to you? If she is..just treat her like you are her big brother...and tell her as a big brother...you trust that she is becoming responsible..and you would prefer that she prove to herself that she is responsible and take the car.
She probably is infatuated with the idea of you, and not you in particular. Don't be a lone with her if you can help it. Every chance you get, when around her, put your arms around your wife. Give your wife little kisses . Look in her eyes and say..I love ya baby...or sweetheart. Show your sister in law that your wife is the love of your life. Don't say anything to your wife. You don't want to hurt her. It's better to show your sister in law that you are a faithful husband and that you only see her as a sister.
2006-09-27 10:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Grandma Coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to not be the one dealing with her sister. As far as telling your wife, it sounds like all this would do is make alot of people pissed and hurt. The next time she does it (Remember, STAY AWAY from her as much as you can, and always have your wife around when you are around her) tell her that you absolutley have no interest in her...if she still insists, tell her that you think that she is trash for even comming on to you and she needs to get the hell away from you. If this whole thing is stroking your ego, you are a jerk for indulging yourself and leading both women on. I am not saying that you are, I am just saying that if you are you need to knock that crap off.
2006-09-27 09:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by The Nag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife ASAP. If you piss her sister off by not giving in, she may tell your wife it was you that made advances. The first to tell the story is usually the good guy. Be honest and let her know
2006-09-27 09:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by denavirgo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her get finished paying for it but keep a clear distince away from her let her deal with her sister not you. And if you truely love your wife then you will tell her that is what trust and comunication is called and if you dont have that then you need to rethink your marraige
2006-09-27 09:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it at the bank in your savings !
And buy your wife some flowers with the interests earned !
PS make sure your sister-in-law don't tell your wife !
Good luck
2006-09-28 09:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her pay for the car before she takes it. Just keep some distance from her so her advances will be quietly discouraged.
2006-09-27 10:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife will be devastated. But she do needs to know. But don't be surprised if she reacts in a very wild and crazy way. Expect her to accuse you of having an interest in her. No woman wants to believe their family is low down like that.
2006-09-27 09:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sapphira♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let your wife take care of it either that or just do what she asks and wait until she pays it off.
2006-09-27 09:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by CR2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definately tell your wife that she makes you uncomfortable, does she just have a flirty attitude or is she a hoe? Have your wife deal with her from now on, she'll get the hint.
2006-09-27 09:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋