My wife asked her gay friend (Actually Begged) to have sex with her, and he said NO. All of her department knows about it at work. How should I take this?
2006-09-27 09:31:31 · 22 answers · asked by Simple Life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take it with a grain of salt, Sweetie. She only did it because she knows this person is gay. It was 'safe' for her to do so. Meaning; she knew that this guy wouldn't take her up on the offer.
So let it go.
2006-09-27 10:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...
You are married to her...You lose.
She is rejected by a gay guy, no surprise there...She loses too.
She is the laughing stock of the office...Co-workers win, you both lose.
The only smart one here is the Gay friend.
Yup.
If I were you, I'd just spend more time with her gay friend. You will be better off in the end (no pun intended).
2006-09-27 16:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by j g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks she is good enough to "straighten" out her friend. I wouldn't read to much into it. Now if she is in the habit of begging for sex from random men, you might need to worry about things then.
2006-09-27 16:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask myself what's going on in my marriage that my wife needed to ask her gay friend to have sex with her. I think if it were me I would be extremely hurt and wonder what is going on with her that she's not cluing me in on.
2006-09-27 16:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Angela N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her shes worthless. She must not be worth much is she actually begged him and he said no lol.
2006-09-27 16:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like YOU are the problem, my friend !
You cannot be much good between the sheets if your wife is asking a FudgePacker to do her service.
2006-09-27 16:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Pat R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the world did the entire dept find out about it and why is she begging him for it when she has you?
2006-09-27 16:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a reason she asked him...ask her what it is. you have a right to know.. begging a gay guy to have sex isnt normal...ask her wats up
2006-09-27 16:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I wonder why she'd want to have sex with a gay man?
2006-09-27 16:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by mzanjell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thought she could change a gay guy-- question is - how does she feel about it???- just brush it off-he's gay and said no!
2006-09-27 16:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋