I am a singledad of three boys of 10,8 and 6 and have never had a penny from thier mother through the csa or direct in the four years since she left them.Every comment on tele news and papers is absent dads never absent mums I would love just for once to read about how mums are not as great as they (the press) make out and can abandon children just like dads.l
2006-09-27 09:23:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Simple - there's a lot more absent Dads!
Good luck - you're going to need it!
2006-09-27 09:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see where your coming from but it's not going to happen. I give you respect and best wishes but while financially things may seem wrong, I can assure you your life will be enriched by the experience.
I can say this from my own personal experience, when my first marriage broke up I was left with sons aged 2 & 4. I remarried years later; that also broke up. She won custody because one of the children was only a stepchild to me. They ran away from home about 5 years later and I got custody. It's been hard, it's been difficult but, now they are all grown adults I look at them and think I've done a hell of a job. To me, as a Father, I was allowed to be closer to my children than most and for that I am grateful. Once again, Respect.
2006-09-27 10:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by bob kerr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer a dad, yet my boyfriend has admitted that on condition that his ex moved which includes his daughter and he in no way receives to work out her or call her, or deliver her something (ex's fault) he pretends she would not exist. It truly makes me unhappy to comprehend how a lot it hurts him. His oldest son merely moved in with us very last 3 hundred and sixty 5 days, which helped out slightly pondering all he went via to get him. although i have not gotten the danger to satisfy his daughter, I felt like I virtually knew her. He may call or textual content me even as i changed into at artwork the completed way he drove to go see her even as she nonetheless lived in this state telling me what he planned to do. the same on his in the previous. he will hardly communicate about her till he's having a reliable day and something makes him carry it up. (my love of hi kitty frequently)
2016-12-02 04:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree im a step mom and my husband and i look after the kids whilst the woman feels the need to live off the govt and soak up the funds.. the csa does suck
they came after us even though WE HAVE THE KIDS
W*nkers
2006-09-27 09:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you but like earlier comment there is lots more absent dads then their are mums. Whoever leaves their children mum or dad must pay for their child why have them if your not responsible to look after them pratical or financial then the person shouldn't had sex then. (my opinion)
2006-09-28 07:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you got a point Hedg i can only think its always the guy who had the money but of course that's all changed but do you think CSA are able to catch up with that they are so disorganised its not true
2006-09-27 09:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are allowed to make a claim against your ex's earnings.
But if she's sponging off some bloke (or woman) you've nothing to come.
2006-10-01 09:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by CANAILLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It worked for me, I claimed off my exwife and she had to cough up, and she had to pay for me as well because I couldn't work with a small child.
2006-09-27 09:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by tucksie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are a diamond in the rough. I salute you :-D
BTW, I've never had a CSA payment either, so welcome to the club!
2006-09-27 09:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite simply because dads suppose to pay and they don't
2006-10-01 00:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋