My best m8t is being bullied?

Question

my best mate is being bullied, like people always calling her names but i dont know what to do because she is awlays down, and she tells me and other people but it never gets sorted, got any advice 4 me, or her?

Answer 1

My best friend is also bullied by other people. He Says very random and weird things when it is best not to say anything, therefore attracting bad attention. The wierd thing is, he kisses up to the people that insult him.

My advice to your friend and mine is this: Become more socially intelligent. She needs to know when to not say anything. And if this isnt the cas, and she is made fun of for no reason at all, she needs to get a tougher skin. The people making fun of her are insecure about themselves. If they call your friend retarded or stupid, chances are that they themselves are worried about their OWN intelligence. Hopefully, she will learn to not let the insults bother her, and she can be a more fun person to be around. Do not stop being her friend, she really needs your support at this time.

I hope my advice helped you, and I hope your friend becomes more confident in herself.



Dr. Brian

Answer 2

Stand up for her, if necessary. That's what friends are for. Show her as an example that bullies bully those who show fear....show courage and stand up for her...no matter what the consequences are. I did that for my friend... Catholic private school... I could tell that she felt better knowing that she wasn't alone.

Answer 3

improve her morale, tell her positive things about her. make her feel happy.tell her not to be down and that she is better than her bullies.

Answer 4

yes tell her if she dont stand up for her self she will always be bullied ,and you can have her back while she is standing up for her self