i heard that it hurts
2006-09-27 08:54:09 · 18 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Physics
Hey. Yeah, it can hurt. If you are with an understanding and gentle partner, it won't be so bad. You'll get the hang of it. You should try posting your question in a different category, though... the physics folks are gonna get a little freaked out! :)
2006-09-27 08:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by stillstanding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it didnt hurt when I lost mine. Having sex for the first time does not have to be painful.
Many women are concerned that they will feel pain when their hymen (that thin skin that stretches across the opening of the vagina) is stretched open during the first time they have vaginal intercourse.
Some women bleed the first time they have vaginal intercourse because the hymen is being stretched open. Some women's hymens have already been stretched by non-sexual activities like playing sports or using tampons. If not, the hymen can be stretched open before starting intercourse by putting a clean finger into the vagina and gently pushing it from side to side over the course of several weeks.
A common cause of pain or discomfort during vaginal intercourse (whether or NOT it's the first time) can be because a woman is not aroused enough. As a woman becomes sexually aroused, more blood flows into her genitals. (This is also true for men.) For a woman, this increased blood flow allows her vaginal canal to lengthen and widen. It also stimulates the production of vaginal lubrication. All these changes allow insertive sex to be more comfortable.
In some cases, the vagina doesn't produce enough lubrication to make sex comfortable. A woman can use a water-based lubricant such as KY Jelly to increase lubrication during sex. Water-based lubricants must be used with latex condoms. .But many condoms are already lubricated. Using more lube with condoms can make penetration more comfortable, and also makes condoms safer!
Rememeber though: Save it til you are SURE you are ready. Cause your virginity is something that you can NEVER have back. I sure wish I would of waited. Good luck.
2006-09-29 02:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably too young to lose your virginity. Go to school and concentrate on getting good grades for now. There will be plenty of time for this later in life
2006-09-27 15:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by lefty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only hurts for the first few minutes, but after a while it's not so bad.
2006-09-27 15:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by sexie_punkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a man in jail,i heard it's the humiliation that hurts,, and that other thing hurts too tho but its more the humiliation from lack of respect,,,um,, sorry but i thought this was a physics question..
2006-09-27 16:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sieriously doubt anyone on this board would know. Now if you want to know how much a Klingon phaser would hurt, this is most likely the place... ma hoyven! GLAVIN!
2006-09-27 17:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by dogmatitans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is insensitive and just rams in it with no consideration for your pain. It certainly does not feel good but it gets better after a while.
2006-09-27 15:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by SmartyPants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can, for females. Not always. Prior, uh, "exploration" of the relevant parts helps.
Not really a physics question, though.
2006-09-27 15:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Zhimbo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know for girls.
For me it hurt because I lasted about 2 pumps and a squirt.
2006-09-27 15:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
not to a guy, i guess that when the girl's thing gets penetrated the wall of skin gets ripped and it bleeds right...well i guess that must hurt, so dont ever have sex, sex is bad for u
2006-09-27 15:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Leon 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋