Well today is my birthday, my children wish me a Happy birthay and my husband but the only thing is he has been home for the majority of the day. But i still feel unappreciated.All he has been on was his x-box nothing special for me . He might try and do something later but don't you think he should have did it by now. He stays on the x-box 24/7 and when i ask a question he say i ask to many of those? What is your opinion on that?
2006-09-27 08:49:02 · 19 answers · asked by God's chosen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! guys can be like that some days its not he doesnt appreciate or love u hes just lazy lol maybe he has a plan or something i dont know but im sorry u feel this way im sure i made my mother feel this way before so just so u know someone cares and is wishing u a great day :)
2006-09-27 08:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
You are defiantly unappreciated. Make him appreciate you. It is your birthday. Go out. While he is on the x-box get dolled up stop by the room your husband is in tell him it is your birthday and you have made plans. Let him know that he has to feed the kids, see that are bathed and get them to bed. Leave If you have a cell turn it off. Just check your messages every couple of hours. Even if you go to the movies by yourself do it. Don't come in to late and when he ask where you have been tell him celebrating your birthday.
2006-09-27 09:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by BUPPY'S MEME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well happy birthday... ah how old is your husband? I'm asking this question because he's not acting like a adult. Don't you think he plays to much x-box. Can't he put down the game for one day. That would be a present in itself and imagine it doesn't cost anything. Boy you have some issues. Make a better day out of it for yourself. Go out and have a bit of fun and leave him in front of the tv!
2006-09-27 08:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...My...God.....I used to go through the same thing, minus the x-box! I started going out on my birthday with friends and he started to get the picture. I did that 2 years in a row. His family never made a big deal of birthdays because they were so poor. So he didn't realize how important it was to me. After 2 years of dating and 10 years of marriage he got it. I would be so hurt to see him go to the mall for a new CD but he couldn't go to the same mall for my birthday. He gets it now but there was a time when i didn't care if he got it. If you take car of yourself first he will get it. If you want to be taken out for your birthday then get some friends together or your mom or sister. Tell him your friends or family are taking you out for your birthday and you need him to help the kids do homework and get to bed. Kiss him bye and watch the changes. If you want him to change you have to start by changing your own behavior. Good luck
2006-09-27 09:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by denavirgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy birthday. Sucks to have such a pig for a husband. Just remember, paybacks are everything. His birthday will be coming and you get to ignore him the same as he's doing to you.
2006-09-27 08:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a sitter,take a bath and start getting dressed.when he ask what's up tell him you are going out and he "is"invited,as a matter of fact you want him to come it would make your birthday that much better.he should get the hint and if he does you may want to make late reservations because when he gets in the shower,follow him.
if he does not go for this he's a jerk and your marriage has signs of trouble. get help..!
2006-09-27 08:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever women gets emotional on there b-day I do!! Just tell him how you feel and if he won't get off his x-box for you then leave the kids with him call a friend and go have a good time by yourself!!!
2006-09-27 08:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Yahoo person wishes you a happy birthday.
2006-09-27 08:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 04:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get dressed up and go out. If you've nowhere to go just visit a friend or neighbour, he's not to know you haven't gone clubbing is he.
Happy Birthday, hope it gets better.
2006-09-27 08:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jayne 2 (LMHJJ) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋