and going crazy i ready to end my life i have nobody that understand what i am going through
2006-09-27 08:41:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WellI see that I am not the only one that feels that way about a person .
It took me so long a year and a half to finally realize that I could make it on my own and to move on , I no what you are going through I have been there .
It's not easy giving up especially if you are not a quitter but life does go on , and you just have to realize that maybe he is not the right person for you .
You know to even think about ending your life for a person is wrong believe me and I thought about it.
And I even did some really bad things to try and stop the pain, that I was going through but in the long run I was only hurting myself.
She did not care if I lived or died and we have kids together.So take it from me, life goes on and you'll come to a point in your life where you will see that person for what he really is.
I hope that you got my message and that we can talk you are a good person remember that, and don't ever ever ever let a person tell you different.
God has a plan for everyone and maybe just maybe you will find a real man that can love you cherish you and feel your heart with joy just remember that when one door closes the another door opens.
"like to tell you that the pain that you feel will go way very soon, but I would be lying.
And to try to find someone to replace the man that you love right away is not fair for you or four the next suitor,I have learned that if I love with my heart that I am loving wrong.
You see your mind is made up of the same material as your heart and if you drink does your mind played tricks on you.
so how can you trust what you see and if your mind is made up of the same thing that your mind is, then wouldn't your heart play tricks on you to.
now I have learned to love with my soul if my soul is not in it then neither am I when you find that someone love that someone with your soul make him feel that there is nothing in this world that could take that kind of love the way I hope to hear from you soon much love Andy J Miera AKA Love
2006-09-27 20:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't put yourself down just because someone broke up with you believe me I've been through bad brake-ups and had my heart broken but the best thing to do is move on with your life and forget about what happened and get rid of everything you got as a gift from this person and then have a good cry after that hold your head up and say to yourself I will find someone 10 times better and I can move on with my life and be happy again. Good Luck!!
2006-09-27 15:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Amy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people understand what you're going through. It will feel better with time. Don't give up on yourself. Grief is a time consuming process that goes in phases. Somedays are better than others, but over the course of time, it progressively passes. Try to focus on learning your lessons out of the relationship you just ended, including the mistakes you yourself made, and bettering yourself as a result of it all. You'll gain more self respect and esteem that way. Tell yourself what you will NEVER allow in a relationship again and what is absolutely necessary, and don't ever settle for less again. Try also to focus on being who you want to be, figuring out what you want in your life, how you want to feel about yourself, what it takes to achieve that, and start going for it. It's a nice distraction and is good for you.
2006-09-27 15:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to the people closest to you, try talking to a counselor, but please do not end your life. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but life will get better, you will eventually get over this person and move on. Believe me, I know, I have experienced many breakups, thought I would never get over it, and lo and behold, I'm still here and barely think about the person anymore. Hang in there!
2006-09-27 15:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by beattyb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is final, this is not. My brother committed suicide and I've still never forgiven him for the pain he caused my family and I. Talk to your family and friends. Let them be a reminder to you that the number of people you would affect and the feelings that you would inflict on them would be unforgivable. What's more, you'll never get the chance to make amends with them. If the breakup has caused this much stress for you, why would you let him win the battle by extinguishing yourself. It's much more fun to go on living your life and make HIS a living hell by doing so.
2006-09-27 16:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by andi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is worth that. In time you will heal. Even though you will read this and think no I won't. You will. After me and a guy broke up I didn't want to talk to anybody not my friends nobody. Then one of my friends set me up, without me really knowing it. And I had fun we just hung out as friends. Now we are married and happy.
2006-09-27 15:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the whole situation but Please don't end your life. I can understand that it hurts. i have been there numerous times. But I realized if he is'nt crying over me then why should i cry over him. Ending your life is not the answer. Making a new friend is. There are plenty of people who need a friend. and you can be there friend. So be like the marines. They are always looking for a few good men. lol.
2006-09-27 16:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by justdoinmyjob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you get involved in something like sports, bowling. or you could (if your even a bit religious) start going to church. just anything to get yourself out of the house, and to meet new people. my friend started going to AA even though she was not an alcoholic. now she has a bunch of new friends, and she's always doing something. the main thing is to keep yourself busy, and don't be slumpin' around the house get out there and live. no man is worth ending your life for that's just silly.
2006-09-27 15:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we all go through this! Since your relationship didn't work out, think of it this way. It wasn't meant to be then. You'll get someone a lot better & you will be so thankful you weren't still stuck with that person. Trust me, there's someone else out there for you that's why that relationship didn't work out! Let it go, & live for the moment! You have a lot to live for & look forward to!
2006-09-27 15:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by bcre8ive2day 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand. Nobody and I mean NOBODY is even worth to end your life. Only time will heal, and after time heals your wounds you'll laugh about what you were thinking. Trust in me, been there done that!! Don't do anything stupid!! You'll regret it later!!!
2006-09-27 15:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋