If it isn;t YOUR husband then its really none of your business. Isn't that the problem with everything these days, everybody is always getting into everybody elses business. If it has nothing to do with you, leave it alone. How many people agree, and how many people think I am a stupid slut for daring to have an opinion?
2006-09-27 08:35:51 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
just because a woman is sleeping with a married man, does not mean she is looking for a relationship, it just means she is sleeping with a married man. Not all women need commitment in order to have sex.
2006-09-27 08:50:17 · update #1
Well, I agree...kind of. I don't think you're stupid. I would not be ignorant enough to voice something so harsh without getting to know you first. And yes, the world is always in each other's faces. I would, however, like to say that infidelity is wrong. Thanks. You rock!!!
2006-09-27 08:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Obi-wan Kenobi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is sacred to many (men & women). Sure society has trashed marriage in the last decades, but many of us still honor the sanctity of marriage. I understand that you do not appreciate or value marrige and have not desire to.
What about the woman who he's cheating on? She's being exposed to STD's, and the connection between her and her husband is permanantly damaged. Sure, you only plan to be in the situation for a short time, but your doing life long damage to a Husband, Wife, and possibly children. To me it's no different than if you were wrecklessly drinking and driving and killed the Wife and childreen. What was once a troubled marriage is now a dead marriage, and you're the vehical that killed the marriage.
Socially, I do feel compleled to tell you how damaging this wreckless behavior is in hopes that you will stop harming marriage. Just like commercials saying "Friends don't let friends drive drunk" ... it's good to educate you that "Adultry Kills Marriage".
So, why would you want to harm a family just because you've got lust? Can't you find an unmarried man? Do you enjoy tearing apart marriages because if you're not happy then no one should be? That's sadistic ... sorry, sad, but true.
2006-09-28 04:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We get all out of shape because we imagine how we'd feel if it was OUR husband or boyfriend running around with some other chick.
Also, it's pretty well known that a guy who's cheating WITH you will probably cheat ON you, and I hate to see other women being stupid- it makes us all look bad.
I'm guessing that many men will agree with you- the fantasy of being able to have all the sex you want without consequence or interference is strong, but I think there'll be plenty of ladies who agree with me.
2006-09-27 08:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by craftladyteresa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because it is not a normally acceptable thing to be doing. but like you said if it isn't there husband it isn't any of there business what anyone else does. that is part of the problem with the world today that no one seems to be able to mind there own business. and if the wife was taking care of her husband then he wouldn't be out fooling around with the other girls or women. that is the way i always thought about it.. but like everyone. we all have our own opinions..
2006-09-27 08:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I disagree. It's ruining a family, most likely one with children. I would never do that to anyone. Maybe it bothers me because I am married, and I hope it never happens to me. This begs another question, why would that woman want a man who will never be hers and why is she satisfied with being a "side piece."
2006-09-27 08:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by GreenEyedSista 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most of us can sympathize with the woman being cheated on.
2006-09-27 08:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adultery defiles the sanctity of marriage and it should be offensive to everyone. It is not acceptable.
2006-09-27 08:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Preacher 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They just hate seeing a relatively intelligent woman making the same dumb mistake they fell into after "I Do".
2006-09-27 08:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Pundit Bandit 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Are YOU the whore sleeping with married men?
OK then.
2006-09-27 08:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by saggy_nutsack 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋