2006-09-27 08:28:06 · 21 answers · asked by Liz M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me guess...this bothers you and you don't know why, and he says its no big deal...Right? This happened to me too...I can't explain it and they say it means nothing to them... You just have to let him know that it bothers you and talk about it. I wish I could figure out why it bothers me, but I just can't explain it for some reason.
2006-09-27 08:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When your husband is looking at porn, he's not thinking that these girls are better than you or that he wants them or that he doesn’t love you, and he might even be picturing you doing those things that he sees in the porn. Men look at porn a lot different then women. Women in general see it as emotional or mental involvement with the people they see, but men just use it as a tool for masturbation. For most men (and some women), masturbation is difficult to impossible without some kind of porn. When you masturbate, do you fantasize about sex? Of course you do. You’re not thinking about what to have for dinner of how much work you have to do in the morning. Your husband might not be good at fantasizing, so he uses porn as an aide. Unless your husband is refusing you sex to masturbate, you have nothing to worry about. And if you are having sex less than every other day or so, masturbation is somewhat necessary for your husband to maintain good prostate health.
2006-09-27 16:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as this isn't an every day issue and he's not addicted to porn, I would say it's pretty normal. I know every guy I've ever known jacked off to porn, most are just smart enough not to get caught. So I guess you're making too much of it. Sorry.
2006-09-27 15:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should have helped him finish. That would have been very cool. Do you really think married men don't indulge from time to time? As long as he prefers you to porn then there's no problem. Of course, I'm a man saying that.
2006-09-27 15:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in those shoes & it made me feel like I wasent doing a good enough job but my husband reassured me that its a guy thing & if Im sick his manhood still kicks up... so dont worry it really is just a guy thing ( although I think they could be a little more discrete about it)
2006-09-27 15:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's what men do, no big deal. It doesn't mean he's not interested or attracted to you. I think jacking to porn is a whole lot better than cheating any day.
2006-09-27 15:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by SmartyPants 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Master G. This is a normal part of every man's (and woman's) life. Be glad it's just porn!!!
2006-09-28 11:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by stacilynn26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god.....I think that is hot!! I really like to see my man getting off to porn....or anything....I think masturbation is completely sexy!! Next time ask him if you can watch him...see what you think. If it makes you jealous to see him watching other people put on a show for him.
2006-09-27 15:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by starbrite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does that too, makes you feel like you're not doing something even though you know you can only stretch so far right?
My solution was to watch it with him, but I was wrong about that too...
2006-09-27 15:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by mzanjell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I agree with everyone else. Maybe you should have jumped on it and rode it into oblivion so he wouldn't have to do that. If it continues, then I guess he's aDICKdid to Porn. Once it's gotten that far, he's just gonna have to find it in himself to quit.
2006-09-27 15:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋