Is it okay to think that someone would be a better mate if you are already married to someone else?
2006-09-27 08:05:57 · 12 answers · asked by I'm with Stupid. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DON'T DO IT!!!! If you allow yourself to think about someone in that way, it will eat at you till your mind will make up all kinds of excuses. Your "evil little conscious" will over take your "good little conscious" & talk you smooth into it. The next thing you know, you'll have done something you can't ever, ever take back! Nothing can ever be the same & you'll never get that security back. It will haunt you till the day you die! No matter how sorry you are or how hard you try to justify what you did, you can't. And how you hurt the one person that would probably die for you just cause you THOUGHT someone else MIGHT be better. You'll never be able to make it up to them even if they never found out you would will always know. I'm telling you it will eat a hole in your sole! That other person, if they have a conscious, will come to realize the same thing. Turn that idea off right now before it goes any further!
(Now if your being abused or constatnly cheated on, that's a hole different ball game!)
2006-09-27 08:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably ok, but what's the point of thinking like that if you're already married? If it's someone you'd actually consider leaving your spouse for than I'd say you've got some serious thinking to do.
2006-09-27 15:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Danger! Set your sites back on your own relationship.
The grass always seems greener on the other side but sometimes it is not all it seems to be.
To lust after/think upon someone other than your intended is wrong.
Turn your attentions back where they belong.
This shoe could easily be on the other foot.
How would you feel about that?
2006-09-27 15:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to think that, but it doesn't mean that person would actually be a better mate.
2006-09-27 15:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Shay~Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Girlfriend, you need to get out of my brain. I'm wondering the same thing. But just remember, the grass ain't always greener.
2006-09-27 15:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible to think that but you got married for your reasons if your not happy then you may think about talking with your mate if your not happy.
2006-09-27 15:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by lovecbma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in thinking.
I bet everybody in one fine time has dreamt of somneone else than his/her mate.
This is a natural phenomena as opposite sex attracts each other in general.
2006-09-27 15:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by rah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody does it.
The nature of human kind makes us want more than we already have. What you can't have is always sweeter than what you have.
It's ok ;)
2006-09-27 15:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Gabriel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grass is always greener, but it's usually because it's over a septic tank....
2006-09-27 15:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you plan on getting a divorce first.
2006-09-27 15:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋