woman who have had their man cheat on them?

Question

if u were to poll men who had cheated on their mates the most common answer would be this:
i asked my mate to do????? and she refused, so i found it somewhere else. My question for the ladies is - if u don't want your man to cheat and u want him to be totally faithful isn't it worth the effort to give into his desires. You would want him to do the same for u. But it seems that a woman will tell her man no to something as simple as head, etc.... but in the next breath tell him now don't cheat. that is just asking for it don't u women think. instead of no all the time try yes and keep your man at home not on the streets

Answer 1

Keithy,

At your age(close to mine), you should consider if gettin' head is worth loosing your women by cheating. If you will cheat to get it, your woman will expect you to be willing to go after everything else you think you should have. How long have you been with your women , and is it worth loosing her over? Truckers have a reputation of being unfaithful as it is without you challenging your relationship with ultimatums. Get your nose out of the girly magazines and back on the road. Treat your woman with respect and softness and maybe she will give in to your desires. If it is true, tell you would like her to try it once and if she isn't comfortable with it you won't bring it up again. A good marriage is hard to find these days, is your worth throwing away?
Think twice before you unzip!!!
Kimmie

Answer 2

Right on sister. That is good advice. I've always believed that if a woman would give her mate a bj in the morning, and cook him a meal in the evening, he'll be putty in your hands. He'll take out the trash, do the dishes, clean up after himself and hang up his clothes. Believe me, it's a simple solution to a lot of troubled relationships. Try it.

Answer 3

If a man wants to cheat, he will cheat regardless whether you give him head or not, wash his clothes, cook and clean for him... There are those guys that cheat for stupid things his girl not gving him head, but there are men that cheat because they are just curious about a particular person....

Answer 4

But the thing is, if you give it all up to them, what else are you going to have to offer? You shouldn't give into someone's every whim just because you're afraid they'll cheat on you. That's so unhealthy, sex isn't what a relationship should be all about.

If my lover was going to cheat on me because I don't give him anal then I don't want to be with him at all because that's such a petty, ridiculous reason to stray.

Answer 5

First of all if your partner really is comfortable doing a sexual act then you should respect that. I don't like doing it anal; my husband does, but he respects my decision. Sounds like to me you are just wanting an excuse to cheat. I don't tell my husband not to cheat and he doesn't tell me not to cheat; its just something we know. You get married to stay married not to go screwing around when your partner and you disagree on something, whether it be a sexual act, money or whatever.

Answer 6

I gave my man everything he wanted sexually and he still cheated but now he realizes that he made a mistake but it is too late because some men are just like that.

Answer 7

With my boyfriend he doesnt ask for much when it comes to sexual things he would rather have a abck rub then anything. Personally I believe we have to do something we dont want to for a man to be faithful then he isnt worth another second of our time.

Answer 8

Yes it is worth it and I do everything my boyfriend desires such as head every night,massages,initiating sex, cook/clean for him, and many more and he still cheated on me! His reason for cheating was because I was paranoid that he was going to cheat on me so I guess he figured he might as well do it anyway.

Answer 9

My ex b/f cheated on me but this sounds like something he would say, He wanted me to do bad things with him but I refused. He cheated on me and it was devasting, but now when I look back, I dont regret anything. I respect myself and he could'nt do that. But for married people, I agree, I think u do have to make an extra effort to please one another.

Answer 10

Any person man or women will cheat because they want to cheat, not only because your partner wont give it to you the way you want. EX...So you are saying if I don't let my fiance do anal (because I don't like it)he can cheat because can get it from somEONE WHO WILL .