Stop whining aobut how your not getting it and figure out what you have to do to get it...geez, dogs get it, why don't you???
You want it every night, you want a bj...you want...whatever it is you want...some of you are pretty scary...then be attentive...but don't just hear it...act on it...be romantic...I bet you stopped that right around the time your bj's went with the wind...be sweet....but not too much of a push over, thats no fun.
If she asks for it give it to her then you won't have to ask.
2006-09-27 07:24:04 · 18 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Listen I can't speak for every unrateful ***** on this planet...I can only speak for the majority of them...sorry you didn't get a thank you...maybe you bought the wrong color.
2006-09-27 07:28:44 · update #1
Thanks fantasy...but I wasn't talking to people who don't whine about not getting it...I was talking to the ones who do. You obviously don't have that problem with your...husband??? Can't tell by your avatar if your a man or a woman. And I am not whining...I'm stating facts that I guess some people think should just be kept quiet. I however, don't think so...why wonder why when you don't have to.
2006-09-27 07:52:15 · update #2
So a bottle of Boone's Farm and Hershey kisses ain't romantic, I take it?
2006-09-27 09:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you sound like you need to be with someone you actually care about. Sure guys ask for it some, that is only natural. Girls ask for it, too. You think guys are the only ones out there trying to get laid? LOL, that is just too funny. I'm married, sometimes he asks for it, sometimes I do, and sometimes it is just like bam and we are both just into it. He loves BJ's and asks for them often, but it is a playful kind of asking and not at all demeaning. There are also a lot of times that he actually asks to go down on me. So, join the grown up sexual revolution and realize that sex is fun and something that we all want and stop whining yourself. If you have to argue about sex, then you are seriously not in the correct relationship. Just stop whining and arguing and just start touching and kissing....works every time!
2006-09-27 14:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a chip on your shoulder. the same can be said about women whining about men, which is what your doing by the way.
The problem is that people don't sit with no TV or other distractions and talk. Talking and listening resolves a great many issues.
2006-09-27 14:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I treat the girl with respect and i dont tell them to give me a bj because that is not the way a guy should treat a girl. They should be romantic and take care of them and be there to give them company when they are sad. Niw that would be a good boyfriend or husband.
2006-09-27 14:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it!
Men:
If you want some, EARN IT!
If you wanna stick it in the rear, be prepare to handle a strap on yourself.
If you want a b j, well, go down first...
Wanna a three sum? Then let her try with with another man first while you watch and see if you would enjoy that.
Men whine more than a newborn ward.
You goo Sasha!
2006-09-27 14:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You speak true. Guys are driven by hormones which result in less than romantic behavior. They want things right now, for themselves, and get pissed off if they don't get it. Unfortunagely, there is nothing in our society to teach guys how to handle a women. No explanation of her needs, her desires, and what it takes to satisfy her. We have to learn these things on-the-job. The kind of attentive guy you are seeking, might evolve in later years. Too bad, because that immature behavior is upsetting a lot of women.
2006-09-27 14:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the question? By the way chick do this too. I give my girl roses every week. She has not thanked me for the past 2 weeks. So what's up with that LADY?
2006-09-27 14:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats a BJ?
2006-09-27 14:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anna L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sasha, you sound like you know what you want. The advice you have given works. When I am nice and attentive, I usually get it.
2006-09-27 14:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have lots to learn. Hope you will meet a man who can teach you.
If there is no demand, what good is the supply?
2006-09-27 14:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Gentle Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋