MEN: Do men still find young married women attractive?

Question

Are men less likely to fancy a women who is married than someone who is just in a relationship?

Not that I would cheat, but it's always nice to have men still finding you attractive. I've noticed that I want more men to find me attractive, like when i was single, purely for a selfish way to make me feel good and sexy.

Answer 1

An attractive woman is an attractive woman no matter what her civil state is.

Answer 2

We usually find a woman attractive if she's *physically* attractive to us. At that point, we don't know if she's married, single, in a relationship, a lesbian, or anything else -- just that she's attractive.
Once a man *does* find out a woman is married, MOST men will back off and that'll be the end of it. Don't want to mess around in somebody else's playground. Same goes for "in a relationship" if we find that out. Most men will go looking for a single woman...unless they're so attracted to the married woman that they get obsessed, in which case all bets are off :)

Answer 3

I think it has to do with the fact that a married woman has relaxed from her earlier days of desperation when she begins to panic that she will not have a boyfriend (HS) or a steady and/or fiance (college) or a ring and a date (20's). Women and men who are married and happy allow their personality to perk up and their charm to flow. An attractive woman whose charm and personality are fully realized is a knockout. The same woman who has bought into the gotta have a man crap, is less attractive for it. Clearly, the state of ones emotions reflects in her face and either adds to or detracts from her beauty and natural charm. Likewise, women who are in a "realationship," whatever that means, if she really wants more, will exude anxiety and maybe even depression and be less physically attractive.
There is an important lesson here and this is what I think it is - and this goes for both men and women: Confidence in oneself at any given stage in their life allows their natural good looks and charm to blossom. A woman who is career driven and not particularly looking for a relationship can exude the same maximum beauty within and without as the married woman because each has what they want and need at that stage of their lives. Panic, neediness, desperation, depression or anger at one's situation have the potential to reduce a beautiful woman to merely a commonplace woman. So, the emotional and mental health needs to be kept in check in order to present ones best appearance and presence.

Answer 4

Men will find any woman attractive regardless of a ring on her finger ... I love women of all ages, shapes, sizes and colours

Trying to pull a married woman is just another of those small problems life likes to throw at us! I had an affair with a woman who had lived with her partner for over 3 years and only 3 months after she married him was being seen by me!

Answer 5

I believe most men sort of fancy the married woman and vice verse simply because of the excitement factor. It is almost as if it's a game. (cat and mouse). Most people like the game because it makes one feel like they are 15 yr. old again. In other cases some find it exhilarating to actually do something naughty and get away with it with out being caught . If you could rob a bank and get away with it would you?

Answer 6

Just as long as its not my wife! No I'm not married but I think there is something about a married woman that attracts a man to them. Maybe its the fact that you know you can't have them. That just makes it that much more challenging. But if your gonna cheat why the hell would you get married?

Answer 7

Yes. It's never going to go away. The married women in my office are far more attractive than the single, younger, better looking ones. Simply because they are more confident and generally sexier. And, you know full well they are better at sex.

Answer 8

No, men find women attractive, period. Married, single, attached,Bi, Les, it doesn't matter to men.

Answer 9

yeh of course men do but they shud know that there is now a natural limiter in place, or they shud do! me thinks u shud concentrate on just wantin ur husband 2 find u attractive and 4get other men!!

Answer 10

I have been married for almost 6yr and now I to would like to know if i still look good. Because my husben dont tell me anymore So I would like to know. not that i would cheat but to know i still got it.