if your man asks u to do something sexually do it. look at all the stories in yahoo answers about cheating. first of all a man will only cheat to get something that he has asked for or begged for from the woman he is with. 2nd what is the harm in doing something that only takes a little while to keep him satisified and at home. 3rd try using this idae, tell him that ok i will give u ?????? but next time i want ?????. i know cuz i used to be a cheater and im fighting the urge right now cuz my g/f is doing this to me. i want something that she used to do and now refuses, i have tried the compromise thing and she does not seem to care, but keeps reminding me that if i love her i will keep my promise and not cheat, even though she promised that she was a hot, sexually active woman in the beginning
2006-09-27 07:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
True. My husband tells me all the time and I do what he wants at least I will try it once. But we have a great sex life and he tells me all the time that he doesnt need to cheat. Every guy he knows cheats cause their wives don't give them what they want. I don't agree about cheating though. they should leave if they don't get what they want then they can go and get it wherever they need to.
2006-09-27 07:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is quite a question...
It may be true in your case, but no.. not in all cases do men cheat because they have asked their wives for some sexual favors that their wives have refused them. That is ridiculous...
If you are hoping your woman will do things for you that she is uncomfortable doing.. maybe ask her why she is uncomfortable.. if you want her to play along with your fantasies are - find out what hers are and do those first.. don't expect her to just do everything you ask from her.. it's give and take...
find out what her reason was for refusing to do whatever it was that she used to do....
2006-09-27 14:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by River 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like it or not sex is a big part of a marriage. I am not justifing cheating. I am so into my husband. We do alot of exciting things and venture. If I know Im not going to want it later Ill pull down his pants and go to town. Ill pose up when he masterbates. Im willing to give it when I dont want it and he's kind to not take forever when he knows this. It is no big deal I usually want it but in times of a "headache" I do other things because he's a wonderful man,a partner and he deserves to be treated like a king.
2006-09-27 14:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is a woman, not a dog. If you're going to cheat on her because you can't get her to do anything you want in bed I'd say she's better off without you.
2006-09-27 14:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Gingerly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you got caught fooling around. Her refusal to satisfy you is pure punishment. She feels slighted, and she doesn't feel close enough to you to satisfy you, or please you in any other way. If you want to set things straight, you'll have to bend over backwards to convince her that you intend to be straight and true. If you think you can be sly about it, and still play around, you'll only invite suspician, and find yourself in the same soup.
2006-09-27 14:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u've already made up ur mind to cheat regardless! If u THINK ur missin something u've already found a replacement and just tryin to stall if u ask me
2006-09-27 14:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you really are a self absorbed ***! sometimes a woman JUST DOESN'T FEEL LIKE IT. And why is always what YOU want anyway? What about what your partner wants too?
2006-09-27 14:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by REDLAKEDOG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up Keithy....if your woman asks for soemthing...do it, buy it, clean it, rake it...whatever...be attentive, be romantic, be sweet...do all the but don't be a pushover...wimpy isn't attractive...then you'll jet your ********:)
2006-09-27 14:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by sasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about self-discipline... that's always another angle.
2006-09-27 14:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it takes 2 to tango. -Maybe you're not that good stud!!! LOL!!!
2006-09-27 14:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋